i'm angry! ! why do some people put unpleasant picture in their profile?!!
By bhabytart
@bhabytart (1116)
Philippines
June 11, 2009 11:24am CST
hello there everybody.. i am so angry today! i had a every bad experience on the internet. i am a member of skype. and just like here in mylot somebody asks as to be their friend or add them as friend. so at around 11:24pm a request came in skype i tried to view his profile but i can not see his picture.well i decided to add him up anyway. then after a few minutes there was a message from that guy(Turkish.) sorry for the Turkish out there in mylot no offense to you guys. so i open the message and i was shock to his his picture on his profile.IT WAS AN ERECTED REPRODUCTIVE ORGAN. I was so angry.... i did not response to his message then when i was trying to block this guy but he was calling.... i did not answer his call and i block him from my list and reported it to skype.... i just wish skype would take action of what happen.... have you ever experience this kind of things?
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15 responses
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
12 Jun 09
Some people are just not concerned with what others feel is degrading or disgusting. I think that it was wrong for him to post that as he doesn't know who could have children who sit in their laps etc, and are with them whilst on the computer. I understand skype to be a telephone service through the internet to make friends correct? Well I wouldn't be on it myself but for family if anything, and friends, but only those I know... Not saying that it's a bad service just saying that it seems a lot of people would want to use the service for bad things.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
12 Jun 09
If there is anyway to warn other members of the site through a forum or something I would definitely do so. Although I'd be careful because if it's anything like mylot using a person's username can cause repercussions on your account. Well I do hope that this person is banned or reprimanded in some way.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
hello there somecowgirl..... yes he is not concern to others. he just think of himself.yes skype is like that. oh you know i just saw the name of this person pop up in skype site. they have not yet banned him...sigh......and if he is still use that picture... there are still people who would be his victim...
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@akt1843 (207)
• India
12 Jun 09
hello bhabytart, my opinion is that u must take permission before sending these things. if the guy or girl is friendly with u or comfortable with u, if u have become good net friends then u can ask if he or she is ok with it. i think there wont be problem after that.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
hello there akt1843.... but this person didn't even ask... and even if he ask me about this things i still don't want that kind of picture...
@savypat (20216)
• United States
11 Jun 09
Well he got your attention which is what he wanted. You would have to say he stood out from the rest. I would guess that some people find that an interesting subject.
Myself I say don't sweat the small stuff and remember your delete button. Blessings
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
well yes he did get my attention. i have deleted him from my contacts. he just did'nt know is that i reported him to skype. i just wish skype would act on this matter immediately....
@Skills1789 (462)
• Portugal
12 Jun 09
Totally agree with you, savy.
I think you´re spending too much of your time thinking about this accident, bhabytart, and by so your definitelly giving more publicity to this Turkish than what he deserves.
My opinon is the same as savy: forget the small stuff and remember your deletion button (as well as the report abuse button).
Peace
@aikhong (661)
• Malaysia
12 Jun 09
Oh that's really bad of that guy, what a disgraceful and disrespectful things to do. I've never met such kind of things before, but i think it's not unusual if there's such people in this world, in the internet world. They think this is an art, maybe,haha and they're so prod of that. But i just can't understand that.
If we get to meet those kind of person, just ignore or block his/her contact, so that they won't get to disturb us anymore. If can, it's better to report to the site admin. I believe they'll have action taken on those people, or to do some improvement so that similar cases will not happen again in future.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
13 Jun 09
hello there aikhong... yes it a very disgrace and disrespectful thing to do... but these person do not know these works.well that is what i think...they can not control their urge...thank you for the suggestion... have a nice day...
@anggareds (96)
• Indonesia
11 Jun 09
Waw, i think the person must be a guy who put the bad pic there. I dont know what he think and i dont want to know. You should report to the admin in order to block that person from putting disturbing image again.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
hello there anggareds... yes i also don't want to know what is on his mind... i bet it is all rotten things. just like him... rotten maniac. yes i did report it i send a message to skype. i just hope they do some action about it immediately. thank you for the comment and have a nice day ahead of you.
@Sankar_Narayanan (26)
• United States
12 Jun 09
Yes we should ban these kinds of people who put pronographic pictuers in there profile. Mylot admin should take care of this & have to do some actions against these kind of peoples.
@clutterbug (1051)
• United States
12 Jun 09
Hi bhabytart, I wouldn't have liked the photo either, but I got to thinking that before you hit the delete button, maybe jot a quick note to the next perv, that by the looks of the photo he could use some enhancement surgery. Insult him right back. Thanks for listening, and I hope you never have this awful thing happen to you again.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
13 Jun 09
hello there clutterbug.... thank you for the comment. and yes... i do hope thing don't happen again.... or i'll be traumatize. have a nice day...
@dfinster (3528)
• United States
12 Jun 09
Wow, that is totally gross. I know it's stuff like that that we really hate, but the sick fact is that there are complete sickos out there who do stupid crap like that. They have no morals or any sense of right or wrong obviously. I hope after you blocked him and reported him you got rid of your account with Skype. From what I have read in this discussion, everyone who has dealt with them has nothing but terrible things to say about that network. I would completely avoid that whole thing all together. In three years I haven't come across anything like that here and I'm sure if it was going on and was reported it would be dealt with pretty quickly and the person would have been kicked out of Mylot. Stay away from that gross perverted site, it sounds like nothing butperverts and trouble.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
hello there dfinster.... oh i am sorry to say that i think skype is still allowing this jerk to be in skype.... i mean a block block him from contacting me but i just saw his name pop up in skype site.... uuuuhhhh...... i hope skype do something about this... i am going to report this again to them..... my blood is boiling because of that person...!!!
@dreamr802 (985)
• United States
12 Jun 09
Wow, that is bad. I would be very offended as well. I've gotten random pictures like that from different people online and I block them. There is no reason to have that type of picture on your profile for any reason.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
hi there... yes there is no reason for that kind of picture... i have also block him... but you know... he is still in skype... i saw his name pop up in skype site minutes ago... i hope this person would be banned on this site...
@eshaan (6188)
• India
13 Jun 09
it happens here many times, there are people of different mentality and many are searching that false pleasure here...it depends on us how we dont get affected by them and how to avoid them, you did good by blockinghim, and reporting about him to the administrators.
@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
11 Jun 09
Hi, bhabytart!
I'd be outraged, too. If a person wants to do this, he (or she) should at least ask if it's OK with you. Maybe they enjoy the shock value, but they're way out of line!
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
hello there ma'am cobrateacher... i so angry with the person. he is such a pervert ma'am. that was the first time that i have encountered like that on the net.i can't believe that these things are happening.they are not thinking what would be the effect to others.i hope that person in banned from skype.
thank you for the comment ma'am. have a nice day ahead of you...oh advance happy fathers day to your husband.
@newstar117 (171)
• India
12 Jun 09
I believe that some people out there are mentally not fit to socialise.They really enjoy of showing such vulgar images and having such talks.I do not know what is going through their mind.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
hello there newstar... i agree with you.... such a rotten mind they have. they should be banned from skype and other site as well. so that they can no longer put pictures that show unpleasant pictures.hmm... if i have only the money i would sue that person for indecent exposure!
thank you for the comment and have a nice day ahead of you...
@Ramsay (130)
• Canada
11 Jun 09
Hi there....I dont think there is any need for those kinds of photos...But I guess right off the bat, it tells you its not the kind of friend you are looking for. I prefer to use my real picture, then people can see who they are talking too. Its too bad everyone didnt so we had a better idea of who we are chatting with, Like putting a face to a name. Unfortunately, not everyone agrees and neither is it always safe to do so.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
hello there ramsay... is that your real name? it sounds like a name of a pharaoh. anyway yes i agree with you!he's not the kind of person whom i want to be my friend he should try finding a same person like himself(maniac)i can't believe it happen to me..... sigh....
thank you for the comment and have a nice day ahead of you...
@xanlui (38)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
I had that incident too, way back, but it was on yahoo messenger (view webcam) thing. It was disgusting. He was asking me if I was 18+ and then he just showed IT on the cam. It's very shocking! I erased him from my buddy list and never talked to him again. Such a freak.
I wonder why guys do that. It's so annoying!
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
hello there xanlui...wow... he just showed it just like that? my dear i would agree with you...he is a freak.... well i do hope things like this would not happen again to us...have a nice day...
@chikadee21ph (438)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
I am sorry to hear that you were a victim of such act. It happened to me as well in the internet. Even in college. At that time, my classmates and I were walking to go to our favorite restaurant to eat our lunch. Then there was a car park nearby and we need to walk past by it. And guess what? There was a man sitting on the driver seat with his zipper down and doing an act of pleasing himself. An exhibitionist at that.
@bhabytart (1116)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
hello there chikadee... wow... people now a days are so different! doing things that should be done in close door. they can not control their urge.. They should seek help don't you think? we are people!
have a nice day ahead of you...
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
11 Jun 09
ehehhe..it may be common in some onlie communities as onlie jokes!!I don't know why or the taste about it but i know it happens especially towards girls i guess..because guys they must not so shocked about it seeing that there is not a big run to see a reproductive organ erected eheheh!!
I don't know but it never happened to me before i was member about some communities but never sent me a mail like that..may be some girls send you hot pics but they are fake too..so..
