He to tall, she, very short; ; he, to fat, she to skiny; she very beatiful, he

He is tall, she is short, they have been in love and married for over 30 years. How good is that? We have an inner spirit of attraction. In the beginning the outer person was good looking and attractive. We still work on that but it is the soul bond that keeps us thinking young and loving each other more and more. (I am speaking of my life.) What really made the difference for me was to ask God for my mate.......only He knows me and my mate and knows what will work and what will not work. This does not mean that there have not been tough times. That's our humanness.

It doesn't matter what you look like when you get with someone. Look around outside you see many skinny people with a chubbier partner. Why is this? Who knows but LOVE is LOVE and it doesn't matter what you look like when you find it.

HI, nice discussion. I never noted about high or weight at all... as long as your heart is good with each other. My husband is too skinny and I am ok. it doesn't bother me at all. True love never look for these thing.

well, i think the look may have some sort of importance initially as one will not choose a partner he/she is not comfortable with for eg. if i dont like fat men i simply wont date one. other than that, if too persons are in love weather they are fat or slim, short or tall, it shouldn't really matter.

I do not think it makes any difference if you are two opposite people,i think if you are in love with someone it do not matter what shape or size you are as long as you are both happy.It also do not matter what other people think.I am shorter than my husband and he is fatter than me,but we are still married after 14 years so it do not matter.Happy mylotting.

I Believe Love COnquers ALL and that OPPISITES ATTRACT LOOKS shouldnt matter when it comes to realtionship as long as you are attracted to the person who you are with

I don't think it matters at all how people look, as long as they love eachother. Why should it matter how a couple looks together? If two "nice looking people" get together, and have a lousy relationship, would would be the point of them being together? And what is "nice looking" or beautiful anyway? I think that's all very personal.

Hello icesmile. In my opinion, it doesnt matter if both of you dont have the same appearances whether he or she is beautiful or wears glasses etc. What matters is that you both love each other. Thats most important.

Personally, I really do not think that it's important. I do not believe that looks tell us much about the type of person that you're looking at. For me, it's the inner being of a person, which really defines us, and not our outer beings. Looks really can be deceiving, in my opinion.

beauty is only skin deep.so i don't think what you look like makes someone love you more or less if the person is given a chance to show what he or she is all about

My husband and I look completely opposite. He's 6 ft 2 and I'm barely 5 ft. I was skinny... well, he's definately not. I think all that really matters is that the couple are attracted to eachother. I really can't explain why I dated or picked my husband. Before him, he would have never been "my type." I prefered the muscular but skinny guys with a six pack. I am big on hair and eyes though, and I love my husbands hair and eyes.

it's difficult to say if it's important or not. After all, people all have different opinions. But I think that the man should always be a little taler than the woman. That's most important to me. Of course I want my man to be good looking, too :). I don't think it's real important to be the same. It might just look weird sometimes. Yesterday I saw a man, he was real small and skinny and his wife was maybe twice his size. That was odd, though. But if they love each other, that won't matter, I guess.

I've seen several couples nice together break up.i don't think these things like appearance really matter.however,they do influence the emotion,unless both of em can handle em,i mean ,like you say,trully in love,then they would never think of it

In my opinion is not very important how people look like. Is important if they are happy together or not. And who are happy have a smile on his face, who make him really nice. I don t care if he he short or tall, handsome or not if i love him and he love me. I like what a person have inside, how much is loving, understanding, and nice person.Not if he have blue or black eyes.

Looks and how they look together are the obvious things that people observe and it's very superficial. Maybe she is very tall inside and is the dominant one. Who knows? I don't really go for the superficial. Cheers!!