Is it important in settling down a church wedding ? a wedding?

I feel it is necessary to go for a wedding when we think its time to settle as its better option to show to others close and far relative people also it shows that you are committing your future life in her or his name and life..

Yes it is important even though some says that it is just a piece of paper. Wedding makes everything legal. Security for others because the guy gave you his name. Nowadays marriage certificates are needed in enrolling you're child in school or even just for baptism. A baby cannot be baptized if his or her parents are not married. As for me the cost of the wedding will not matter as long as you love each other and you have each other. It is just a one day affair to legalize everything. What will matter the most is the life you'll have as husband and wife.