how to choose a life partner??

Mauritius
June 12, 2009 1:52am CST
im alone and want to have some suggestions concerning love??can u help me please to get a sincere lover??
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7 responses
@med889 (5941)
12 Jun 09
Choose someone very mature who will not judge you for everything you do, who will not be behind you evertimes, who is understanding, loving, caring, and honest with every feeling of his/hers. The person should respect you for what you are instead of trying to change you. So choose well. I had bad experience several times and now finally I am settle with someone who is the love of my life and the right man for me.
• Mauritius
15 Jun 09
but people say that the one we love should know everything about our steps we are going to do and they even say that they have the full right to object...what do you think??
@velentina (891)
• Mauritius
12 Jun 09
Noone is perfect in the world so you should choose a person who respect you and your love for him. You should take time to know a person,understand him and develop a feeling for him only then you will be sure he can become your life partner.
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• India
12 Jun 09
Love is not worth searching.It itself come to you.As far as your loneliness is concerned make some good friends.If you really want someone to love you then you should first know him/her whether he/she deserves you or not or he/she meets your criterion or not.for this first you should spare some time with each other & frienship is the best way to know each other.Don't take any decision in a hurry.
• Mauritius
15 Jun 09
thanks for your opinion dear but suppose that he is using me and me as a fool i'll start loving him them what shall i do??
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@r9cyber (29)
• United States
13 Jun 09
Dont be in such a rush to find love. Trust me, I've had to learn the hard way. Now, r9cyber is very happy being alone. Love will not solve any problems, if anything, it will only add to them. It is more important to learn how to be confortable with being just by your self.
• Mauritius
15 Jun 09
but don't you think that it's good to have someone with whom you'll be able to share your problems and feelings??it's not good to be alone dear
• United States
14 Jun 09
Ok you first you need to ask your self do you want a lover or a life partner. See a lover will give you passion and fufill a more physical relationship. a life parter/ mate will want to build somthing more. but if you are looking for attention, love,or both then then maybe you should try a date site. it will at least give you a change to get a feel for what it is that you really are looking for.
@Tom728 (175)
• United States
11 Oct 09
If you dont love, then money honey. But never lie about loving someone, let them know why or you could get more hurt than them. Most crimes are crimes of passion.
• United States
12 Jun 09
I think that many of us has a soul mate. but until we are personally ready do we find that specail one. But being alone is hard. I mean I hate to be single. But offten when we hate to be single we have a lot of personal growing to do.