How do you deal with flirting
By PEETRE
@PEETRE (59)
United States
June 12, 2009 4:51am CST
My husband works with a woman that constantly calls his cell phone. She actually called him on a sunday evening and asked him to come to her office to help her move a desk. I totally flipped out and needless to say he did not go. He knows how much I detest this woman. I probably would of been friends with her if she would leave my husband alone. This has been going on for many years and hubby just laughs it off and says he has to deal with her because he has to work with her. At first she called the house phone every day and the kids would answer and tell dad his girlfriend was on the phone. He finally told her not to call the house again and then he was given a business phone and guess what she calls him all the time with the cell phone. I totally refuse to go on vacation with him if he brings that cell with him as she will not interfer with my vacation. I really don't suspect my husband of cheating but I know he is a flirter and I am sure he loves the attention.
What do you think?
2 responses
@pbrockington (500)
• United States
12 Jun 09
I think you can do a few things. the first thing you can try is inviting this women to your home. If she had the balls enough to come find a moment were you can have a pleasent words or two with her just you and her. Let her know that you feel that is very disrespectful to you and your marriage for her to flirt with your husband. Onces you have done that she will do one of two things she will either stop or keep her action on the same path. The other thing you can do is flirt with your husband. text him, send him email make hime feel like he is your king. Flirst like that attention.
@pbrockington (500)
• United States
12 Jun 09
Also i hope things get better for you That can be a sore area if it keeps going.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
15 Jun 09
Unless there is some business related reason for this woman to be calling your husband after office hours, he doesn't have to answer the phone when she calls. If he stops answering and tells her when she asks that he was "busy" enough times she may catch the hint. Whether your husband loves the attention or not, he needs to have some consideration for your feelings. I wouldn't make a big deal about it with him but you could tell him that your time with him is yours and he shouldn't share it with anyone else. Don't let this woman cause problems between the two of you. Be loving and fun...make your home his refuge...and keep this woman on the outside.
