Do you spend more than your pocket ?

hi there, well i guess we need to shed more money only when it comes to emergency for us or for one of our loved ones. Well as for me i spend quite a huge sum for one my fried who was really in need of some cash somewhere during last year. I was actually saving up my money to go for a tour to europe. But i had to use the whole sum and give to my close friends who need the money more then i needed it. He had to pay some hospital bill for his father who was hospitalized for a major operation that he had to undergo. Well but he was actually short of cash and he asked me if i knew anyone he could borrow from. Well he even asked if i knew a loan shark that he can borrow from. He did not ask me for cash but asked if knew anyone whom he can borrow from. Well but being good friends a realised that i should just give him the money since it was for good cause. Well therefore i took all my savings that i had saved for my trip and gave it to him. I certainly feel good after that cause i knew it was for good course. Anyway his dad his much better now and i told him he can take his time to return the money. No hurry. Anyway have a nice day and happy mylotting. best regards, alvingb