Find yourself falling out of love?

There's no such thing as perfect relationship. The hate you feel for your wife will soon pass. That's a normal feelings. But don't give her up because sometimes we made mistakes that we can't undo. No matter how hard we try. Stay in love and sane.

Yeah I can relate and in my situation it kinda scared me because I thought that this was the guy that I was going to spend the rest of my life with then once we moved in togather and all of the problems started coming I found myself getting annoyed and like questioning are relationship. Then I realized that the love was going away cause things were starting to change and I didn't know what to do cause this was the man that I was going to spend the rest of my life with. Then I had to say if i'm not in love anymore I need to let go before more problems end up coming or someone gets hurt.

I hear you on that. It's between two lovers that have to deal with everyday problems where I believe they shouldn't have to fall out of love. I remember one time that happening to me with my girlfriend before in the Philippines where we got into our arguments and fights and she wanted to end our relationship. But it's small things like that where you can always make up, say you're sorry and continue to love each other. I agree with you though that it isn't good to hate someone with no apparent reason to. I hope both of you can work things out. Yes and times where money can be tough and with finances that's one of the major issues couples fight about. Stay up bro.

Falling out of love is easy. Bills cause stress, jobs cause stress, many out side sources cause extra tention to be place on the love you share. After so many negative confersation you just don't want to talk any more. But falling out of love is a choice. With all the love that is not right you could say baby you are my wife I love when you... or you could kiss her after she has said somthing that made you want to scream. See when you love a person even harder when you are not in the mood after a while they catch on and before you know it they love back. It takes work and time but I have been trying this out in my own relationship. Tell your self you will make an effort to love them for the next hour... love the action spoken through words and guestures.

One month ago , i have a fight with my bf .I made a decision ,say break up to my bf which i love about 2 years .Then he is very upset and sad ,after we talked ,suddenly he picked up the mobile call his mother ,say he agrees to married the girl which arranged by his mother . This sunday ,they get married . my heart very pain ,He too . He said i demaged him so much . In fact ,i didnt want to break up , just angried and say some bad words to him . Now ,we lose each other . :-( , i am very regret . So sometimes , we should be controlled our emotion ,and dont hate him . should be forgive him.it means forgive ourself .

Well I must saii me&+Mi "Husband" Have been together for 1 year&+9 months [&+I can't wait till out 2nd year aniversarii));;&+We've have fought alot in our time of being together;;I'm talkin fighting everii daii;;&+There are plentii of times I believe that I no longer love him&+Feel the need to be with someone else;;&+I'm sure he has also felt the same need;;But I also have learned there is no past tense in love;;Yu either still love the person;;Or yu never have;;&+Althought I have felt as if I no longer love him;;Theres no doubt in mii mind that I do still love him;;I have never stoped althought I thought I did;;&+I believe yu never stoped loving yur wife as well;;Jus sometimes it seems hard&+Yu'd rather have the easii waii out=);;It's either yu love her or the lover was never there to begin with=);;

i don't think that you have really fallin' out of love to your wife. maybe, you can't just accept the changes that you were into right now especially when your responsibilities are increasing. try to find ways in order for you to easily adapt your situation. you might regret losing her in the end. believe me

i thought i was head over heels inlove with my ex husband. I saw him with different girls during our marriage, i forgave him. He drunks all the time, he is always out with his friends. Until one day i realize i fall out of love with my husband, it is almost 7 years of living together. One reason, we live in his parents house, we dont have privacy. i earned more than him and yet when i asked him if we can go out like shopping or movies, he will always tell me that we dont have money and we have to budget our money. Maybe i am not really inlove with him in the first place, i was just in love with the idea of love and marriage. So i easily fall out of love with my ex husband

Definitely, these day to day problems in everybody's life tend to put you out of love. But then, a person who can handle such situations is a Perfect one! And you should try not to fight with her on money related issues as you can gain money back but it takes years for a relation to prosper. Calm down when you face such situations.