A guy love you but you dont love him/her. How would u avoid him/her??

You said you dont love him I wonder why you respond to his invitation at the first place. I want you to really cross examine yourself very well there is part of you that has something to do with the guy. I am not saying you love him but just check. What is your reason for not loving the guy ? Is he not handsome or good looking? hey if you are looking for someone that really loves you i think this guy is the one remember after three years he stills feel the way he felt for you.

You have to be very firm. These kind of situations tend to end up badly if not handled correctly. For example stalkers, abuse, etc. You have to have a good conversation with him and let him know what you feel. Have him repeat back what you said and make sure that he gets it. If you feel that you want to have contact with him, make sure that it is in group settings. No one on one activities, so that way to avoid that awkwardness or intimate type settings. And if that doesn't work or he fails to realize, then you're going to have to let him know that because he is not respecting your wishes then you will have to cut out contact with him and end the friendship or whatever relationship you have.

Really, that guy after three years is still in love with you? That is something. He really loved you because inspite of you ignoring him, he still have feelings for you. Why don't you give him a chance,maybe he is your true soul mate. How will you know if you will not try.

Well, the first thing is that Don't indulge yourself into the emotions. Let the emotions flow away. The more you think of it, the more it comes to you. That is not the matter to be taken every second in mind... Another matter to think. It is not the problem that only you have. Many teenagers or adults have that sort of problems in their life and it is completely natural. With time, and maturity everything will change. Such problem comes and goes, let it just see as it is, don't get indulge in it. I hope you have told him nicely that you don't like him in that sense. Remember, it is impossible for him to take you as a friend anymore. He just cannot though he wants. So, the more you be in contact with him, the more he will get indulged. I have seen ending the extreme craziness of love in some people in my life and also seen them healing up totally. So, after you told him that you don't like him it is finished. You should then avoid contact with him. Slowly at first and then completely. Okay, if the boy tells you that he remembered you each time in the whole three years, then he is lying. He may have remembered you some moments of his life and felt it deep at that times, but it is not that he remembered you each day, each hour in that 3 years. So, ignore up everything. Let him, live another 3 years of similar life. Be confident that he will give up. And don't let yourself indulge in it. Just, feel that with that it goes away, at least away from your life. The feelings of love is complex if you try to think about it, it is just as simple as you let it go. It's on you make it complex or get indulged... Good luck...

I saw someone's comment.i think they are right.If you don't love him .Don't contact him whatever meet or call.You should just tell him the turst, that's you don't love him.and you don't want him to trouble your life.and it makes your uncomfortable.it maybe hard to say ,or may will hurt him.but if you don't tell him.you just give him a wrong sign.he has hope.and this 'hope'in the end will kill him.or you should talk to yours' in common friend .let the guy told him the trust.i think he will understand and let it go

well, we have the same situation. My classmate way back grade school and my former bestfriend. I didnt know that he have this feelings for me. And i was really shock when he admit it to me. I dont have the same feelings for him. Cause i only like him as friends. Anyway, i feel that its really hard for you. I know it. But all you have to do is to tell him the truth. If he really loves you so much and purely. He gonna understand it. You know, sometimes if you really love someone you'd rather be hurt than seeing someone you love being hurt. And the worst, its because of you. Just tell him, if its not meant to be learn to let go.

quitemoon, All being fair in the name love, I think you would have learn another lesson about love and that is you may not love him, however, you cannot stop him from having feelings for you. Where you are from, I believe, you will need to be both consistent and persistent with your rejection here. You need to understand that there are individuals that can never take no for an answer. So, you need to move on with your life and avoid having one to one meetings even if it is for some work or business discussion. If meeting cannot be avoided, be sure to have a friend accompany you. You can also down play the situation by introducing another girlfriend who might be have interest over him. Never assume things with such individuals, you need to constantly remind him that there is no way for the both of you to be lovers and that he should not waste his time on you. Insist if you must to the extent of not taking his call or telling another friend to tell this message to him. Distancing is a necessity but communication is just as important too. Take care.

Why did you went to meet with him and your know about his obsession for you. I think it is best you avoid him. Try to be with your friends if he is around. I would also ask my friends to help me convince him that I am not interested in him. Maybe he sees your excuses as just that and deep down he is saying that you are only shy to display your feelings for him. So please to seek assistance in this matter with your friends ok.

If you really really don't like him then change your number, ignore his messages. Ask common friends to help you to get out of touch with him. If you can change location, do so. There are a lot of ways to avoid him if you really want to.

ow god i experienced what you have but he was my ex..hmmmm i did talk to him nicely and explain one by one,..i have said that we cant be happily to be a couple or lover anymore coz i dont love you already ,lets say u luv me i said,.but are you happy to be with me even i dnt luv u?,i said...its easy 4 me to response your love if i love you,but i dnt feel any love in my heart..sorry for that but i nid 2 be frankly as i said..we're not meant 4 each other,maybe we have more good partners that is comes 4 us...im not happy wth u coz i dont luvu,i said..all explanations i did and thanks 2 god coz 1 day he realized the truth that is hard to love the one who dont love u..

If he loves you and you do not love him, the best thing to do is, just tell him. Once you tell him avoid all contact. Do not pick up his calls, do not text him. Do not go and meet him.No matter how persistent he is, if you do not respond to him, he will finally get the message that you are not interested in him. After all,unless you respond to him, there is nothing he can do. Happy myLotting!

Hai,i understood your problem.All have the same experience.I am straight forward,if you don't like him.please tell him first i am not interested in you.After that when he is disturbing.and your family is supportive then tell one of the closest member to help you....then the problem will solved.

Dear one, Greetings, It is rather very bad situation. But liking and dislike is not in our control. As long as one can understand what is actual situation with his loved one, than only he can able to do the needful.I think, it is better to me the person to understand your mind by simple discussion over phone or on some other media or press. It should need to be participation of both. so it is advised to take directions of the learned one in the matter under your local situation. Seasons greetings and all the best wishes to you all.

I think the best thing to do is just stop talking to the person period because if you keep on then they might believe in some odd way that they have a chance of having you back and that could make the situation worse then what it is. Just leave the whole thing alone.

I was in the same situation so I know how you feel. If you allow him to contact you out of pity, he might take it as a signal and green light to have more than that. Apparently, it will never work and he will never understand. Situation can be worse where he can be violence if you use wrong words or method to refuse him. Best thing to do is clearly tell him how you feel. If you don't even have a tiny bit of that feeling for him, clearly tell him that you don't want to give him hope and hope to be just normal friends. Then avoid contact, no phone call, no sms. This will clearly state your feeling. It work for me.

in my opinion,i think he just like you not really love you .so the best way for you to avoid him is to disappear,beacuse time is a good cure and it can make people learn to forget,during the time of your disappearence,if possible ,you can change your phone number,but remember not to contact him any more .maybe after a period, you two can see hello with smile