After marriage , people will change ? no more romantic?no more interest?
By marianna45
@marianna45 (1399)
Romania
June 12, 2009 11:52pm CST
The man are tired of the "hunt" and they relax?The woman are more relax after bo need "fox traps"?When they get comfortable each other, they will relax and lose the interest?
So, the real reason both to change after marriage is that they feel relax and comfortable?
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7 responses
@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
13 Jun 09
I don't know. Shouldn't it be that they should both be relaxed and comfortable with each other way before they even decide to get married? I don't think it's right that they're still playing fox traps and hunts upto the day of their marriage. Shouldn't it be that they have grown accustomed with each other, and loving it, that's why they get married? It's not the other way around, that they married then grow accustomed to each other.
@anniecheung216 (168)
• China
13 Jun 09
Agree with you .And after they married,will have kids,and need to raise the baby,seldome have time to do traps or hunt.But still can be rommantic.Which depends in the two of them.Say "i love you " is rommantic.Such a little thing could make life be more rommantic.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
20 Jun 09
Hi, i think that after marriage 2 people must to be more happy....if they decide to be toghether for all life, they must to find the best way to keep interest alive, must to be as they are, not games, not masks.
So, when 2 persons after marriage, are as they must to be more relax, they will be more relax.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
13 Jun 09
I don't know anything about relaxing after marriage because I now had a family and my focus was on feeding them. I have not heard of this word relaxing after marriage. Cheers!!
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
Yes...I noticed that too on some of my friends.
The changes can be noticeable after a year or
few months after the wedding. Maybe the reason is
that they are already much closer and much more
comfortable with each other. So, the fox hunt is
no longer needed. But I think fox hunt should be
brought up in to the union once in a while to make
the marriage more exciting.
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
13 Jun 09
After marriage..........
Well personally I think that all the games need to be tossed aside after marriage because the two becomes one and that means there is no hiding anything from the other one. Which means that both people should be mature before they go into marriage but how many of us are really mature? That is the problem, there are far too many immature people out there getting married only to wind up in divorce court. Both want to have their way and it can't work with two people pulling in different directions, you know what I mean?
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
13 Jun 09
I believe that people do change not because they got married but because things change around them. Be reminded that we cannot stay constant unless we are goal oriented. The only reason I think couples are not that romantic as how they were before is because they worry too much with their family and how to feed them that they forgot the whole reason behind marriage. Now it actually depends on the couple if they were to be comfortable with eachother even after marriage.
