Am I Right?!

Am I right? Hello Luna, sorry to say this but I don't think that you are right, you shouldn't have to give up everything to go and live in his city. You should tell him to meet you halfway. I don't know how far away you will be from your own home but things happen when you move away. Some things you will miss out on and you will wish that you could still be there. It's not easy to leave everything that you are familiar with to go and live in a strange new city, while i am here wishing you the best i do wish that you would reconsider. I'm in a situation right now and I'm not happy with the way things turned out when I decided to follow the man that I was in love with. Somewhere along the way the tables have turned and it's not exactly in my favor. He tell me that I knew what I was getting into when I married him but that's not exactly true. Things don't always turn out the way we want them to but I think that so far I've made the best of a not so good situation. You might have to do the same if you don't change your mind. Anyhow I do wish that you will change you mind and ask him to work with you and meet you halfway in between for your own sake. God bless you............

i am wondering if i understand you right. do you mean to say that you and your boyfriend are living-in just like husband and wife minus being legally married? no, i don't believe that it is a right decision to give up everything in favor of a relationship which has no solid foundation. what will happen to you if your boyfriend all suddenly decides to end up your relationship? there must be something which you have to reserve for yourself just in case. think of that most important thing which will matter for you as a standback when things come to worst. there is a really great need for you to have that mighty standback in cases when your boyfriend will start to show some signs of itchiness about you or your relationship. i am really hoping that you will consider this advice seriously. i am giving you my best shot. since i do not know you personally, this is all that i can tell you.

What really matter is that you are happy with your decision and that you are very well aware of the consequences of your actions. Remember to stand still with the decision you made.

i really can't tell because i don't really know what kind of partner you have. luna198, if you're confident enough that he wouldn't change into something bad, then that's the moment that we can all tell that you were very much right and lucky to have him. :)

Well,in my opinion,if you love him so much and so does him,what you will have done is a wise choice.Because if lovers stay at different places,they will feel very miserable due to they will not meet each other quite often and it does not good for the stability of your relationship.So I think if you are sure of your relationship with him,what you will do will be beneficial and deserving.

I think that what you did is a right thing. Although I also think that preparing for the worst won't hurt you. Its better if you have saved money for your own use just in case something happens. But in relationships, taking risks is a part of it. I admire you of your trust to your boyfriend. Good luck and be happy!