Do u believe in internet love?Did u ever come across such pair & living happily?
By meherswaroop
@meherswaroop (112)
June 13, 2009 9:56am CST
I see many of my friends chat online (only with girls)and starts trying to impress by saying many lies. I never know how one falls in love thru Internet. Do you know anyone?? Ofcourse I knew one
Recently one of my friend got married.. I wish all the best to him. But what do you think such marriages will make their life happy?
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7 responses
@liera0 (280)
• Philippines
15 Jun 09
Before I don't believe in it. Even find it weird till I was into it. Its something I never meant to do and it comes as days pass. I have a friend who had such relationship too. They got married and now their kid is already 2 yrs old and still they are happily married.
Somehow I can say sometimes love comes in unexpected places and circumstances. Something you didn't expect. As to lies maybe some does specially if you go a certain site just to chat or something. I think it also depends on where you met the person.
@ezekiel71 (132)
• United States
15 Jun 09
do i know anyone? oh yes, absolutely! me and my husband are living proof. Its true you can find love anywhere, even in the midst of war. I met my husband 5 years ago in single christian site. first it was a normal chat, we talk about lot of things, anything under the sun, ask a million questions to each too. the time came that we need to see other i person jsut to see if the relationship is worth pursuing. And now, here we are happily married after 4 years and have a son. there are relationships that works and there are that dont. Even the relationship that didnt starts in the internet, sometimes they work sometimes they dont. So it really doesnt matter where it started, what matters is your love for each other , your commitment for each other and commitment to make the relationship works no matter what.
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
13 Jun 09
Do you believe in internet love?
Hi there, yes I do believe in internet love. If both people have the same hobby as playing around on the internet, I say more power to them. I wonder if the connections would be as strong once they see each other fact to face but I think they could have a lot to teach each other. I have heard of quite a few people that fall in love over the internet but most are going to dating sites like match.com. I have met a lot of people over the internet but so far no love. I think we find whatever we are searching for eventually in life. Well i want to say more but I don't want to say too much, so now I will just shut up and simply say that true love will always find it's way through internet or a coffee shop. Maybe even at a meat market. Happy mylot!
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
I have seen and heard many cases where love flourished on the internet. Chatting could be very addicting and it is a good way to interact with someone. As you chat often, the more you get to know the person, sometimes, this might not be believable , but suddenly you feel that there is love. People agree to meeting each other personally. Who knows, they might turn out to be really for each other.
@khuay2x (21)
• Philippines
14 Jun 09
I find your topic interesting, because for one i found my soon-to-be-husband online through one of the dating sites. It is not impossible to really fall in love to someone esp when you haven't met. It takes time to get to know the person well and see how well u compensate each other, how compatible u are, then u begin to realize more deeply how connected you both feel for one another. My boyfriend and I keep a regular video chats online for several months now and i tell you it wasn't easy at a start and we are going stronger than ever. We both exert effort in working this relationship and we make sure that we have time for each other online no matter how busy our life is. If you're not the persevering type then internet love is definitely not for you.
To love someone esp. in this type of setting takes all the risk..as they say nothing comes easy, trials may come but one thing most that i learned about the whole thing is, if love without trust and sense of commitment don't last long. Believe it or not, trust your intuition/s, it just needs a second look or feel to know if what you felt for that person is right or wrong, rational or irrational, remember the brain is situated higher than the heart. Ergo, do what feels good and do what feels right but just be rational. Nothing is really lost when u try to risk to love someone. After all its never always sorry when u love. And Don't stop believing in the powers of prayer.
@veedhya (72)
• Mauritius
14 Jun 09
hi there....
hmm personally I'm also in this category....I'm also in love with someone I met on chat...I agree that most of them rarely tell the truth in the Internet....
But I really like that guy and I know it's not practical...Ur topic of discussion is really interesting.......I can only answer that question after my marriage
@Ammudoll (549)
• India
13 Jun 09
Love can happen anytime. If anyone happens to love online then they will share their interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes. If they think they can make a life together then they will have to go on a date and have to meet very often to know each other personally. I think by this way Internet love will be sucessful That's my opinion