truth or lie
By doormouse
@doormouse (4599)
8 responses
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
15 Jun 09
uhmm... i do give advices based from what i think is right because i based my advices from my elders and for me it's a proper advice that could help my friends... if they would want me to give advices based from what they've been wishing to hear then i don't think they're worth my time and effort. they doesn't want my advice instead they just want to gain justifications that they are right if that's the case.
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
25 Sep 09
I feel honesty is the way to go. The truth hurts often specially if they are not ready for it. Still you would not be a good person if you yourself are only telling lies. I can't imagine otherwise, living a lie. So yea, your motto is fine, be honest, but being honest does not mean be rude and cruel.
@englishgal (51)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
well, I tell them what I think and feel, even if it would make them upset or feel bad. If one is really a good friend he must not lie to that friend who asked for an advice. And that friend who asks for an advice must not expect for a positive advice. What a friend says was just an opinion. Every person has his own view on a problem.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
I will say triuth to my friend always.
I dont want to lie her and made her hurt.
I will suggest everything for her the good
and not the bad one. I also like to make
her happy all the time. I alway love my friend
like my ture sister.
@selvalathamylsamy (14)
• India
15 Jun 09
i ll tell wha t fact.. and should tell wha ll give him/her t solution...
@Beertjie (976)
• South Africa
13 Jun 09
Friends are there to help one another. If a friend ask advice and I give wrong advice just to make them happy, then I am not a true friend. Friends trust one another. If the friend does not like the answer, that doesn't matter, as long as you are honest and they respect that as a friend.
Friends are not there to sooth the ears, they are there for guidence and support. If I give advice to a friend, and they don't follow that advice, and end up hurt, or whatever, I would still support them. As a friend I can give advice, not forcing them to use it. They must decide for themselves. I do not hold it against them if they do not listen to me, even if they find out that my advice was better and they made a mistake.
Many blessings.