Do you miss your family and wish that you could go back home to live again?

Do you miss home?Hello Ivana, well I can understand you for feeling the way that you do, as far as still being home with Mom and dad. But most girls move away from home usually when they are young adults, 18-20,they usually move out then they wind up finding a husband or someone they love. While I can't judge your situation I do feel it's a wee bit odd that you'd still be at home. Did you ever leave there to live someplace else or have you been there the whole time? I left home when I was about 18 myself. I did move back for a short while, like maybe a couple of months then I moved out on my own and met my present hubby. At my home there were lots of rules and I don't know if it's the same at your home but I wonder if a bf would want to come around while all your family is there. Hummm.......

Do you miss your home? Oh well I guess we are living in a different place and that mean slightly different customs. Most of the people over here where I live at like to have their own place by the time they become young adults. They wouldn't like it if their parents were hanging around when it was time for the boyfriend or girlfriend to come over. But to each his own, if you are happy with your situation then I'm happy for you and i hope you will not allow me to try to persuade you to do anything differently. Hope you have a happy life and happy mylotting!

No, I never leave my family and I am good here at the moment... my parent are modern people and if i had a boyfriend could come around while all my family is here.... :-)

Do you miss your family? Hello KrauseHome, thanks for you response. I agree with you that while there is no place like home it's best to live on your own once you become an adult. That way you do not have to be bothered with trying to live by anyone else rules. Well it seems like society is changing and I remember when I was growing up, the normal thing to do was to leave home once a person turned eighteen but now, a lot of young adults seem to be moving back home. I sure do hope that my children will be able to get out there and make it on their own once they turn eighteen. I wouldn't mind giving them a place to keep living if they go out there and realize that they just can't make it but the whole idea is to help those that are trying to help their selves. If they are just lazy then that is another story altogether. Anyhow I can really admire and respect the way that people around our age was brought up because it seems like a lot of us were taught to have a backbone and we had determination to make it. But nowadays I don't know what to say about the younger generation. They seem to want almost everything handed to them on a silver platter. Nice hearing from you and Happy mylot!

Do you miss your home? Hello Latsmom. Thanks for sharing your story. Well I can understand what you are saying. I remember when I was about 14 or 15, that is when me and my mom stopped getting along. There was trouble because her little girl was starting to grow up and i guess she didn't like the idea of seeing her daughter starting to blossom out. It was really rough growing up under my mom during those adolescence years. Anyhow we get along now fairly well but I think it's the old saying about two women in a house. They usually don't get along too good together because both will have their own ways of doing things. As for living with a man. I'm married to one now and it's not easy but you do what you gotta do for the sake of peace and the children in the family. But it's good that you and your mom both have your own place and if you are happy that's really all that counts. So take care Latsmom and have a great evening! happy Mylot.

Do you miss your family? Hello myfb2009, I hope that you get to travel back home so that you can meet up with your family again too. It sound as if your life has been very similar to mine. So far I've had to move around over twelve times. Sometimes it was short moves within the same city but still a move is a move and it can be very hard on the wife. Anyhow I have put a few roots down here where I am at right now and the next time I move I plan on making it my final resting place, that is before I get to heaven. take care and have a nice day and thanks for responding.

Do you miss home? Hello Jugsjugs. Well it's good that you live near your mom because if she ever need help then she can call you right over. But on the other hand it's not so good because you would probably be the one that she would come to depend on whenever she had a problem. I don't think that I could live too close to my mom simply because she has her own lifestyle and her own way of doing things. Sometimes it would hurt my heart to see her doing something that I didn't agree with....especially if I thought it was wrong or could potentially harm her. But my mom have other family members there so it's not like she is totally alone. I"m sure that my mom would interfere too if I lived very close. A couple of cities away might not be too bad. So yeah I agree it can give you mixed emotions......But I'm sure that your mom feel that warm and comfy feeling just knowing that you are near. Take care and happy mylot.

Do you miss home? Hello Pinklemonade. Thanks for sharing your post and your views. Well I have moved away from home and it's very tough not being around there to see everybody growing up and such. But at times whenever I am there visiting or whatever, it tend to get kind of boring after a while. I guess that's because I've been gone for so long. I do wish that I could stay there and help my parents out more because they are starting to get kind of old and i"m sure they might be needing some reliable help in the coming years. Anyhow you mentioned that you found the person that you want to live with but it will be another four of five years, wow, that is a long time. Hoping for your sake they won't change their mind in all of that time. Would this be a roommate or a live in partner? Happy mylot?