Do you believe in Marriage? or be in Live-in relationship? why
By ezekiel71
@ezekiel71 (132)
United States
June 14, 2009 6:35pm CST
I've known people who got married just because the girl is pregnant. and some stayed in live-in relationship because they dont want commitment or lets say a legal paper that binds them together. But isnt marriage is security? and live-in is like living an unsecured relationship? is it a question of what suits your lifestyle? what is your opinion about this?which one are you in? what are the pros and cons in each? share your thoughts.
2 responses
@dncmanning (770)
• United States
15 Jun 09
I believe in marriage and all that it stands for. My husband and I have been together for over 14 years and I wouldn't have it any other way. And to be frank live-in relationships are NOT the same as marriage- those relationships are easier to walk away from. I know people in both types of relationships and it if works for you- go for it and enjoy. Happy Mylotting!
@catarina_rg (580)
• Portugal
15 Jun 09
i guess that you have a point in bring easier to walk away from, but that is as long as there are no children... and, in my opinion, people get married or move in together to start a family, so in the end it's pretty much the same.
@ezekiel71 (132)
• United States
15 Jun 09
wow thats a long year,i always admire couples who stays to each other no matter what, coz i know everything is not a bliss in marriage. congratulations!
@catarina_rg (580)
• Portugal
15 Jun 09
they're the same, I think... People live in the same union if they are married or not. There are many people who are only living together that have more of a marriage than couples who had all that fancy feast...
in the ancient rome there wasn't a ceremony, they just moved in together...
so it depends if you feel you need it...
@ezekiel71 (132)
• United States
15 Jun 09
so the only difference then is just a piece of paper. thank you
@catarina_rg (580)
• Portugal
15 Jun 09
well, the only diference is how important YOU feel that piece is.
