Why is he mean to me/doesn't notice me?
@classicelfryoko (109)
United States
June 15, 2009 1:36am CST
I really like this guy at work. He's my age, maybe 2 years older.(22)
The thing is whenever I talk to him or flirt with him, he's really snappy and scrunches his face up like(ugh, whatever I don't want to talk to you).
When I first started working with him he was a pretty cool guy.. or so I thought. I mean he was nice to me, and then I don't know what happened.
Whenever I change up my hair or something at work other guys/girls notice but he doesn't say anything. Actually he got his hair spiked up the other day and I mentioned how nice it looked on him. He really just ignored the comment, and continued to fix drinks for the customers.
The only time he says anything to me is whenever I do something for him because I have to. I work in a restuarant and sit people down. That's the only time. And he'll say stuff like "thanks, your awesome"And whenever I see him now I just don't even look at him anymore. If i'm about to pass by him I just turn my eyes in another direction. I'm starting to hate him for no reason. Maybe I should just avoid him all together and forget this stupid crush thing that i've got going on for him.
Oh and another thing one time I was touching on his arm just messing around with him cause we were slow.(this is when we were friends) And he snapped at me telling me that he had a fiance, and then said jokingly oh i'm just playing. And he waved his hands in the air like whatever yah know?
Ugh...why is he so mean to me? And when i'm around this other girl he will flirt with her, and tease her, and everything. Someone please help..?
2 responses
@wickidgemini (11)
• United States
2 Nov 09
When he's crossed the line that you feel hurt really bad and he was way over the line that is when you say to him.."you know I am not sure what your issue is but you've turned into a real labush lately and I don't know why and frankly don't care but who ever pee'd in your wheaties take it up with them not me!" and walk away...........................don't look back..and keep it like that until he appologies. Then at that point...ask him.."what happened?" "Did you do something wrong and tell him..we were friends but all of the sudden you've been angry with me and short and just at times mean.....is it me? what is going on?"...if he doesn't tell you than drop him from your mental brain like a bug down the drain.
He's not into you...and basicaly telling you in his own way he's not...... sweet and short...but he doesn't know how to say "hey I don't like you stop flirting with me".... so he rather just be mean to get you to not like him then you will just move on..... So be mean back and ignore him and pretend he isn't there unless he addresses you about work....other than that..ignore him..... :-D
Good Luck..
Rene
