Teaching your Children 'who they are' could be a bit problematic.....

India
June 15, 2009 4:39am CST
I didn't get a better subject for this discussion. So my apologies if the title seems a bit misleading. I actually want to share an indecent that happened yesterday. I was at my youngest uncle's home and I have a sweet cousin sister. Their third one, her age is just 6 years. A week before, if you asked her: 'Who are you?', she would reply: 'I am the daughter of Mr.George Jose'. My uncle noticed this and told her to stop telling that to every one. He taught her who she was:'You are Julie George. So if anyone asks you who you are tell: I am Julie George.' She nodded. Yesterday was her first Sunday Catechism class. The parish priest asked her who she was. She said:'I am Julie George.' He asked:'Hey- aren't you the daughter of Mr.George Jose?' And know what she said? 'Well I used to tell everyone that I am the daughter of Mr.George Jose, but my dad said that I was wrong. I have no clue about whose daughter I am.'Might sound funny, but we had to spend a long time convincing the priest who paid the family an immediate visit. He simply wouldn't get convinced! Now that I have to make this into a discussion: Did you have any sort of experiences with children? Share and Enjoy.
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9 responses
• Philippines
15 Jun 09
that was so funny! thank you for sharing that. but i also understand how you'll face difficulty trying to explain that to the parish priest who may not have found it funny at the time. slices of interactions with kids are really a breather in the adult world. they keep the adults in their toes as to what, when and how things should be told to them. kids are getting smarter and smarter everyday and one must always be armed with explanations to tell a kid if or whenever the child is firing some questions. i always have fun with my 12 nephews and nieces. at one point or another i have babysat for all of them. perhaps the hardest to explain when they were kids was the concept of money and why there should be a budget and why they couldn't just buy anything they wanted. the younger kids thought that money will just come out from the atm and that pizza is bought by just calling the pizza delivery on the phone and have it delivered. another question my sister encountered from her kids was when she was asked by my nephew why, in the catholic church, jesus was always in the crucifix and the kids would ask "doesn't he ever get tired of always being up there? or doesn't he ever get cold coz he doesn't have clothes on?" and stuff like that.
• India
16 Jun 09
12 nephews and nieces is definitely something large. You must belong a large family indeed. And as a matter of fact, even I thought that cash just slipped out of atm whenever we wanted it when I was a child of 10 years. I never asked my Dad about it. He simply don't care to answer my questions, so I never prefer to ask anything first. I guess that's because I was way too curious when I was a kid. That poor man must have been driven crazy with my questionnaire. As far as Pizzas were concerned, I never knew there existed something like that until I was some 12 years old. And of course, I knew they were not free. I guess the problems you faced are quite universal in nature. Children takes time to grasp about economy and currency. I still remember the day when I asked my mom, who told me that our family is running low on cash, to buy a currency printer!!! How stupid of me! Regards, Ajith.
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• Philippines
16 Jun 09
hi ajith! yup, i come from a very large close-knit family. so i guess i'm naturally bombarded with questions from the kids. when i was in primary school i often wondered about the printing of currency bills also. i didn't think that it was more complicated than that.
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• India
17 Jun 09
I really appreciate that you spent your time here. And yes, I think the Printing Press thing is quite famous too. Even now I wish it were true..It would be cool to own one!
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@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
17 Jun 09
Well, this one is the funniest incidents I have ever come across...I really loved it and I laughed a lot after reading it...That little girl seems quite intelligent,witty and smart............. I have come across a funny incident which I face when I was in school and I was 7 to 8 years old....One of our teacher asked one of the student that what is her father do??? But She end up saying "What is your father??" And the little girl end up saying" Madam,my father is a man who has nothing to do except bugging my mother and this is what my mother said always." We all are too young to understand what was going on that time
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• India
18 Jun 09
Wow! What a brilliant girl. Actually as per her brain, the question has got the correct answer.. Anyway, yes, too young to understand stuff like that! Bugging my mom!My God, that was really funny. Anyway happy day out there.
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• India
19 Jun 09
If I could ever display smileys. I would love to put a lot of LOLs. That was very funny. Father bugging mother. I am really sad she didn't know the actual thing. Well, she shouldn't, right Freak?
@anetteh (3590)
• Sweden
15 Jun 09
Ok, teaching kids are some times really complicated. Her father had god inention, but it went wrong anyway.And she only said what her father had said and little more and it confused the poor priest..It is really funny. But I guess her father ended in a really shamefull sits, trying to convince the priest about the truth. I just can imagine that. Hopefully the priest got it and understood how things really was. I have a true story about my sister when I was still living at home, my mum and dad had a cow, they milked her by hand. My sister two years old always was with my parents when the milked the cow. Now, one day, I say my sister with a large bike with out a support so the bike could not stand up. But she struggled with this bike for a very long time and I (I was 15 at the time) watched her. And suddenly out of the blue I could hear her scream to this bike like this ----now you stand still you darn cow, becouse I am going to milk you. Those words was not hers, It was actually my fathers...imagine him in the barn and milking a cow that do not stand stil the conclusion is - BE WARE WITH WHAT YOU SAY TO THE KIDS
• India
16 Jun 09
That was really funny. Now you stand still you darn cow, because I am going to milk you. Great, she really mistook the bicycle as a cow? sometimes children have this habit of misunderstanding things. I have another experience to share, just like yours: My cousin brother, now studying for mechanical engineering, had done this little event while he was three years old. There is this particular sweet called 'Jeeraka'. That is a very small pellet like sugar coated seed. It has even some medicinal properties and is a mouth cleanser. He mistook something as a black Jeeraka and ate it. And got a terrible stomach ache. Know what it was? Lizard poop.
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• India
19 Jun 09
Lizard Poop? YUCK! I know about the Jeeraka you are talking about. I think even it tastes like lizard Poop. YUCK!! I will take care my son doesn't end up with eating that.
• India
16 Jun 09
It is indeed a nice discussion.It is really a complicated thing,to teach children "who they are" or "from where they come from".They often get confused by this sort of a questions...Thanks for sharing this incidents with us.... I can still remember,what my father had taught me when I was a kid....He taught me that I will have to tell my name first and then later introduce my self if somebody ask me the qusetion "who are you?"So,this one is my own experience...
• India
17 Jun 09
Before my Dad told me or rather taught me,I really messed up with this question..The principal at our school asked me this very question once and I replied that I am a human being...He was baffeled by my response and my dad was quiet embarassed. I was not so much descriptive previously,I was hesitating to tell you what happened with me exactly..But now you had my story.
• India
17 Jun 09
Your story? Wow! That's amazing my friend! And yes teaching children could be a bit trouble some. But They always leave surprises for us. Just like my uncle had, we will all have surprises with our kids, I guess. Anyway happy myloting and Good Luck! thanks for dropping by... Regards, Ajith.
• India
17 Jun 09
Cool! That must have shook the Principal! You were in no manner wrong or anything. No one could tell you that either. But wow! I mean that was fantastic. I only wish that I could tell that to my previous Principal. That would have made her real angry, but in no way any harm to me. But I really feel sorry for your parents. They must have really found it embarrassing. But alright, they had a responsibility of teaching you who you are before you went to the Principal!
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
16 Jun 09
lol that was funny, the child was totally confused on how to reply. lol but then it usually happens, my 4 year old daughter knows how to answer..hehe she would just state, i am jazel. lol and thatt's just it hahah funny one my friend.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
17 Jun 09
hehehe people usually think my name is jazel because that is what in my user name lol..but its ok..:)) jazel is my daughter's name and juan is my son's name hehe
• India
17 Jun 09
So you have got a son too? Oh! Mylot is giving me surprises everyday! Rather, mylot users are giving me surprises everyday! Anyway I am happy to see a great mom around and I wish my best regards to your family! And do tell your children about mylot and me! Regards, Ajith.
• India
16 Jun 09
So Jazel is your daughter's name?? Wow! Sorry for calling you Jazel all this time! Anyway I was ignorant! And I am glad that I saw you around. I got two email notifications about your discussion. And I am currently gonna respond to them. I am glad that you are active again! And regarding your daughter. I am glad that she got her basics right and I hope she would be a totally smart girl! God Bless!
@razia91 (13)
• India
19 Jun 09
It is not misleading. It was really funny. It has been a long time I left this website. I accidentally came here... How do we make smileys in the post? Any ways, I have a one year old baby and I hope he doesn't turn out to like that kid of yours...my husband is not a smooth guy.
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
hi! when you reach 200 posts, you'll be able to use smileys. so keep on participating.
• India
20 Jun 09
Yes. Keep participating and you will see how fast it works. Even I don't get much time here now. I am busy blogging..... Hope I can get back to mylotting very fast!
• India
15 Jun 09
Well, one of the funniest incidents I have come across ebook, it seems you all will have to be a lot more careful with this little girl, she seems quite witty and smart. Regarding my son, no we had no problems as such…while we were preparing for his admission to school, we taught him his name, his parents name and address…so he has his basics right!
• India
16 Jun 09
Yeah. I guess she is a really witty girl. She thought she couldn't get the real meaning when her father said not to tell any one that 'I am the daughter of George Jose.' Phew. Now she understood things. And the priest was a bit suspicious and I guess he too understood things. Anyway good Luck with your kid. They always do miracles that makes you gape! Regards, Ajith.
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
oh my gosh... this is really sooo funny... . i have three kids and i have never experienced something like this or even close to this... lol... i just taught my kids their name, and their mommy's and daddy's name.
• India
22 Jun 09
Hi Jayrene! It's been a long time I have seen you here. Well, I quite agree that I am inactive here a bit. I have been busy blogging. Now I have created a blog and no one is visiting it... I have got a few supporters only. Anyway have a good day! And my Best regards to your children- and you.
@nimzia (388)
• India
16 Jun 09
This discussion shows that all are differing in each case,Quite confusing for child.My kid is only 2 years.so i have no such experience.I think what her father tried to teach is good.
• India
17 Jun 09
Hi Nimzia, Glad to know that you have a two year old kid. And I am sure that you are a good mother too. SO just care for your child. And answer every questions with proper explanations. Your kids will turn out to be perfect Indians. God Bless! And happy mylotting!