Would you propose a girl at first sight?
By vkakochu
@vkakochu (67)
India
9 responses
@phyrre (2317)
• United States
16 Jun 09
I'm a girl, but if I came across a guy that announced his love for me and proposed to me right away I would definitely walk away. Marriage is a life-long commitment. It's foolish to walk into it blindly without knowing anything about the other person or whether or not you're a compatible couple.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
16 Jun 09
No, i think that would be careless. I still don't know the girl that much and proposing would be pointless and it might shock her too. I don't think i can express my love that easy. Especially since i am a shy guy and it would be difficult for me to propose to someone i don't even know the name. Maybe i can in a matter of weeks or months but not definitely in an instant the moment i saw her.
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
16 Jun 09
To be frank, I do believe in love at first sight!!
But, its foolish to propose a girl when you first see her!!
That should not be the way..Rather, I would seek her and talk to her and from the very beginning I won't let her feel that I am her "friend".
As for a relationship, its important to know the person.
@siewching_0908 (257)
• Malaysia
22 Jun 09
I am a girl, but if a guy approaches me and tell me that he love me and propose to me right away, I will get shock and walk away right away. Marriage is a life long commitment. We should have known each other well before getting into the relationship.
@changsheng (40)
• China
16 Jun 09
IF i loved the girl,i would not express my love at frist time.Because you will hurt her in this way.i will wait for more time,maybe i can wait her for loving me.This is a good idea.But in many times,it is impossible.
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
16 Jun 09
While you may wish to tell her how beautiful you find her there is no way to truly mean that you love her. You may very well lust after her but not love.
To love someone you must know them well. Looks only attract but to keep you must know that person well. If you don't you will become one of those divorce statistics soon.
True love is not about physical attraction and that is what you are talking about. You must truly be compatible and that takes a lot of time to determine.