Do You Check Your BF/GF Emails?
@pinayindutchland (45)
Netherlands
June 16, 2009 9:40am CST
Hi everyone, I am just wondering, does any of you check your partner's emails? I know that some men or women doesnt want their private mails be checked but my boyfriend and I opens each other mails if any of us would want to check. He knows my password I know his. We trust each other but as a woman, I just want to know everything about him.
If your partner doesnt give you the password, does it mean that he is hiding something or that you shouldnt trust him? Or do you have to keep your personal email private?
6 responses
@justanick1 (1)
• Singapore
18 Jun 09
After reading the responses, I'm actually quite taken back that so many couples are checking up on each other. Or is it bcos those who don't haven't commented?
My point of view is that even if there is nothing to hide from each other, personal space is still appreciated. When your gf/bf checks up on you, on the surface, you may not mind, but deep down, maybe.. maybe you just wish that he/she wouldn't do that and give you your personal space.
Maybe think of it this way, if you checking up his/her mails or msgs constantly, he/she will know how to avoid getting caught cheating on you.
However, I'm not implying that one should ignore his/her partner's everything. Knowing who your partner was on the phone with or is texting, is fine (:
@Tessalim (33)
• Malaysia
18 Jun 09
We don't keep anything from each other. He knows my password and i know his. At times i even ask him to help me to check my mails and so does him. We love to go online together. Therefore, we always check emails/facebook/whatsoever together regardless of whose account.
@chingmerry (414)
• China
17 Jun 09
lol:)i would check my hubby's work email and his text.i think he knew very much for my check.as usually.i won't tell him what i have saw.i would check his text in front of him and would check his work email behind of him.although there is nothing but have something with him work,but i still want to know what he was doing,so he didn't know i knew about his working process at all.
@Brandon_hildum (83)
• United States
16 Jun 09
I point of view on this is if you have nothing to hide from your partner then why cant they read what you write and what people write to you. My gf and i read each others mail... if she was to tell me she did want me to read her mail than i would think there is something up that she is hiding something from me.
@RFSMassacre (48)
• United States
16 Jun 09
Well I can honestly say I dont know, because my girlfriend and I check each other's e-mail, my MySpace, and everything. Sometime she would get mad for me checking it without telling her. And if anyone's partner doesn't wanna show the e-mails and everything they're probably hiding something. If your partner trusts you and has nothing to hide, then of course he or she will show.
