Do women expect to be wined and dined? Is that fair?

no,i usually don't expect it.a surprise out of the blue once in awhile on a non-holiday or anniversary occasion is nice,though. i used to shock guys who wanted to take me to dinner when i said i wanted pizza. they seemed to expect me to say this big,expensive restaurant. well,hey.they asked me what i want,and i like pizza.. i pay for nights out sometimes myself.if i want to go,and i'm the one with the money that week,i don't see why not.especially if it were my idea.

I am a woman, and I don't expect this type of thing, I actually feel sorry that men have to bear such a burden. Before I got married I dated, and I always insisted that I pay for my meal and he pay for his. I hate the way women take advantage of men. One time there was an old lady that came to our table selling flowers (she tryed to make my friend feel guilty and trying to make a sale), so I told her "No thank you". She looked surprized, and walked away, but it's things like this that tick me off. Too many women are taking advantage of men.