do u think one should go for love or arranged marrage?
By tushar4802
@tushar4802 (11)
India
5 responses
@hellparadiso (358)
• United States
12 Nov 06
Sometimes I wonder if an arranged marriage would be easier. That part where you have to actually find someone to marry seems like the most difficult. But then, what if you found someone that you really loved? I don't know, I guess it depends on the person and their standards and expectations.
@vincent121 (304)
• Malaysia
12 Nov 06
If you met your own loving mate it is better go for love naturally but if you cant get one and you have no choice but to go for arranged marriage and most likely arranged marriage are those people too with too shy characteristic
@pagli84 (1850)
• Netherlands
12 Nov 06
personally, i believe in love marriage. i dont think i could ever marry someone i didnt know or didnt love because that defeats the purpose of marriage to me.
however, i understand that a lot of cultures prefer arranged marriages. i guess, in a way, an arranged marriage can ensure that a son or daughter marries someone you know and approve of instead of running off with someone who might do them harm. also, for those who dont find love, an arranged marriage can give them opportunities to be a father or mother.
but, at the same time, there are so many problems that can happen with an arranged marriage. if someone is in love but they are forced to do an arranged marriage, they will not be happy. it's a horrible thing to separate someone from their true love. also, its a difficult thing to give yourself (your body) to someone you dont want to be with but are forced to be with. and its even more difficult to spend the rest of your life with someone who you dont really know that well.