How to keep mind out of keeping physical relation?
By sonusd
@sonusd (1545)
India
June 16, 2009 11:04pm CST
Hello friends since some day I am thinking to keep physical relation with my girl friend,but she is not agree to do that before marriage and for this topic we have fight 3-4 times also and after some days the things goes well again and i decide not to talk to her about all these and i will do this things after marriage but what happens to me i do not know after a month i again started think the same thing and we fight again. i am getting irritated to fight with her because i love her so much so please friends advice me how not to think about this thing
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
17 Jun 09
Actually i can understand your concern, being man there is this factor that when in a relationship especially when you really love the girl being physical with our love ones cannot be avoided. But the thing in here is the girl has decided to have it after marriage so if you really love her you should respect her decision for being so. I guess it is you who would benefit from it since you will be the only man she will offer her body to. I guess there are a few of women who does that to a man. So consider yourself a lucky man in the end.
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
17 Jun 09
You will think of it and that is normal, but realize that respect is part of love. Your girlfriend's request should indeed be respected. When you are together kissing and such, try to enjoy that and not push to go further. It won't help to argue or make her feel bad about her choices. You can try when together doing things that don't put you in a position to desire intamacy quite so much. Hang out more with others, for instance. Or get involved with some truly meaningful discussions or hobbies with her.
I hope you can come to peace with it all. :)
Karen
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