What To Do

@lampar (7584)
United States
June 16, 2009 11:58pm CST
Woman, what do you think a man should do to make you want him to be your lover or boy friend? And man, what do you think a woman should do will make you attracted to her? I am not talking about marriage but just companionship or love relationship between a man and a woman at the early stage of courtship. Please explain what you think so?
7 responses
aerous
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
22 Jun 09
Show with him/her that you are care about. Show some love or even more to attract with you. Don't show some disrespect on her/his part to offend with you. Just tell her the good way on how you admire her/him. If you get a very good chance to say how much you her/him, say it in a proper way.
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lampar
@lampar (7584)
• United States
22 Jun 09
Thank for your response,aerous; n happy mylotting to you!
lampar
@lampar (7584)
• United States
25 Jun 09
aerous
aerous
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
25 Jun 09
Don't mind about it. It's my pleasure sharing my opinion with you. I hope that my opinion will help a lot. take care
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saw2207
@saw2207 (1359)
• United States
17 Jun 09
lamp . that is an easy one . . for me at least .. there has to be that "chemical reaction" that usually one just cant explain . . it is somethng that is either there or it just isnt . . Hopefully in the course of the relationshp that " thing" doesnt go away . .and if it does usually the relationship that started out as a burning desire usually burns out just as fast as it was sparked Happy day to you my friend
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lampar
@lampar (7584)
• United States
17 Jun 09
Glad this is easy on you, my friend. So "chemical reaction" has to be there before any spark can be created to start the burning fire, haha! But this chemical can not be explained at all, hmmmm....so man has no clue what is he suppose to do now.lol! great to hear from you again, my dear friend. Happy mylotting to you.
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lampar
@lampar (7584)
• United States
18 Jun 09
Every romance begin from chemical reaction , i will keep that in mind. My friend.
saw2207
@saw2207 (1359)
• United States
17 Jun 09
and gd said let there be light and then there was light . . . my dear friends lamp and it was good..... so our mission here is . . . is to find that one special soulmate . . . some may call it bershert . . . whatever you call it . . . chemistry . . . there is something that . . . we need to find . . . to spark that light from within us . . &hearts &hearts &hearts
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se7enthbird
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
22 Jun 09
in companionship i think i am a man who likes talking to women who have sense. some women just yak and yak about me myslef and i. that woukd be boring. if they only love talking about themselves then that would be very boring. thats the reason why i like the woman i married. on the first day we met she was not a person who loves talking about herself and her achievements. she talks absolutely about anything and even a subject that is very delicate she can talk very intellectually. she has a great sense of humor too. and whats the coolest?... she laughs at my jokes.
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lampar
@lampar (7584)
• United States
22 Jun 09
At least now i know how she got your attention and why you decided to tie the knot. My friend! I am sure every girl who read your response here will learn a good lesson in getting a man of her dream now. Thank a lot for the response.
grumpybear
@ShortyAkbar (384)
• United States
17 Jun 09
I think if a girl was interested in me and wanted me to be attracted to her, she should show an interest in me because I'm one of those guys who doesn't pay attention to signs. She should also be nice, because even the hottest girl in the world can be ugly when they have a crappy personality.
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lampar
@lampar (7584)
• United States
17 Jun 09
Ok! That girl must tell you she is interested in you and be nice too. Well, That's quite an unusual expectation in order to get your attention. Thank for your response. n happy mylotting!
saw2207
@saw2207 (1359)
• United States
22 Jun 09
lamp .. I think you probably already know what I am going to say here . .but just in case you forgot . .. . it is CHEMISTRY!!!! Then after that . .honesty, mutual respect and trust are the next things I look for! happy day to you
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lampar
@lampar (7584)
• United States
22 Jun 09
Honestly, i am too used to forget about the formula that is required to start the chemical reaction you so often mentioned, since i am not that good in my chemistry subject while in college pursuing my dream. Have a good day, my friend.
liuchen63
@liuchen63 (270)
• China
17 Jun 09
When I met my present boyfriend,I didn't like him,and even I hate him a little.But after communicated with him,I found he was a really good guy,he was so sweet and careful.Though he was not handsome I felt in love with him.And now we are still tegether for over 2 years.I think what a man should do is to show his patient and sweet,because we women need a trustworthy man~~^_^
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lampar
@lampar (7584)
• United States
17 Jun 09
Ok! Men should take note of that, "be patient and be sweet." Great advice from liuchen63. Thank for your response. Happy mylotting to you.
luna198
@luna198 (96)
• China
17 Jun 09
When i see him ,i will blush,when i can't see him,i will miss him,and even one word of his,one eyesight of his will attract me,that is i want in the love relationship with him ~~
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lampar
@lampar (7584)
• United States
17 Jun 09
So the guy must have a nice eyesight in him, is that right? Thank for sharing your thought, happy mylotting!