If You Think She is A Friend Of The People Behind You Down,What will you do???
@Windflower258 (114)
China
June 17, 2009 10:47pm CST
The worst things in the world is to be betrayed by your friend!I'm in this situation recently.A friend of mine(she is also my roomates),writing in her secret blog,say that she never like me before,say I was selfish,a lack of common sense,dirty,big mouth!!!! I TOTALLY mad!!!Because I'm not that kind of girl like she described!She has not only abused me,but also all the girls she had have a good friendship with.She said A is a pig,fat slu,~t,B is hypocritical,C is a liar... Everyone in her mouth is so ugly.
And the worst thing is we have regard her as a freind for so long.
What will you do to such a mean girl?!I an really angry!
3 responses
@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
18 Jun 09
Hi, windflower. You must be in great pain. It's really an annoying thing that someone whom you treat as a friend stabbs you in the back. When I was a college student, there was such a girl in my dorm who liked cottoning up to everyone. It was even difficult to figure out whether she was sincere or not. But anyhow, she was absolutely not my cup of tea. One day, she showed me her diary. She wrote on one page that she'd never had a good feeling for XXX(one of my roommates). She thought XXX was always trying to throw her weight around and she's fed with her. Honestly, I didn't know her true feelings until that moment. Though it was not me that she disliked, I couldn't help thinking that someday I might also be her opponent.
I don't like her way of handling friendship. As long as we're friends, we should always be faithful to each other and never think about doing something bad to the other side. If such a sort of thing happens to me, I'll still treat her friendly on the surface; but she's no longer my friend. She doesn't deserve my friendship.
Try to think over your problem and find a proper way to deal with it. Good luck!
@Windflower258 (114)
• China
19 Jun 09
Maybe,this kind of things is very common in the female dorm.A friend of mine is isolated by her roommates and it's hard to say which side is wrong.In my opnion,Everyone has her own living habbit,we shouldn't be too strict to others.Thanks for your response ,my friend.Happy mylotting!
