How to be good friends?

Hi Mermaidivy! Friendship is a kind of mutual relationship of trust and belief in each other. It is correct that borrowing or lending money can ruin the beautiful relationship like friendship. It is like a give and take relationship, where friends help each other in their hour of need. I always try to help my friends in the best manner possible so that they could feel and realise that they have one good friend in their list, on whom they can rely upon.

Thanks i agreed with your points.Naturally friendship ruins for that reasons.But there are a tang that "A friend in need is a friend in deed".Some time when i am walking with my friend at that time he were injured by some thing than its my friends duty to go with him in hospital and fulfill all my responsibilities.Isn`t it.Thanks

Hello mermaidivy, I heard that too but I think it is sometimes very hard to be in a true relationship. I don't like to talk about money with my friends; be it borrowing, lending or just talk about how much money you have. I don't think it is a good topic. A good friend is someone who will be there when you need them- in good and bad times too. It is better to have someone who can share good and bad stuff with you rather than be there just to have fun and share your happiness only.

A good friends are the one who are always there in your ups and most especially in times you need them. Yeah I prefer having friends accepting me what I am. Good friends can also tested by time. We dont have to test a friend to prove if they are the real one. We should eliminate expectations because its a root cause of failures in a friendship. It is a give and take relationship that requires trust and respect for each other. =)

i dont know whether could to be good friend need this 3 things.but i have ever broken the friendship between my good frind,because the money was involved,i loaned money to her and she didn't pay off it to me for 5years,so i pushed her and got the money this year,but after she pay off it.she didn't receive my call no longer.although some people told me that was her fault,but i am still boring.what kind of magice for the momeny!

Be good and be helpful without any expectation whatsoever in return. Never be jealous, selfish or greedy. meapas.

The quickest way to end a friendship is to loan money. I believe this whole-heartedly.

Yes, I agree with you. I do all these things but one more thing one need to do to be a good friend. Be in contact with your friend regularly.

well, i think good friends are those who can have money or benefits involved, but without money or benefits involved, they can still hang out happily and share good stuffs together. There is no need to put much emphasis on money or benefits.