man has wandering eyes

Men just like women are attracted to people other than the one their with that is inevitable. If a man glances at a woman and glances away I am okay with that. However, if he is being blatantly disrespectful by gawking I am going to say something and have. I do find it offensive because it is disrespectful in my opinion and it makes the other person feel inadequate.

Well me personally not really I wouldn't find it offensive to me because I would probably be looking at her too honestly. I could be looking cause I like what i see or because i'm trying to find out why he really lookong.

Men...and women...shouldn't be expected to go blind when they enter into a relationship but there's a fine line between looking and being disrespectful to your partner. My husband will look at a pretty girl but he won't sit there and gawk at her or...worse yet...make any comments. I look at guys too from time to time but I don't disrespect my husband by staring...or drooling.

Hello Alize997, if I catch him looking too long I squeeze his hand to let him know I saw it. But as long as he is living I know he will look I only want him to not make it so obvious. Sometimes he makes a comment on the way a female dresses like she shouldn't be wearing that or what was she thinking by choosing that outfit. When he was out of work I used to watch the style channel with him so he learned a little about style and fashion. I had a cousin that passed away last year that used to model in Milan and I showed him some photos of my cousin because my b/f respects art of all kind.I look too and I am not obvious when I do look