accusations of cheating

You don't have to prove anything to anybody. Woman, you walk away! This one is not good for you. He clearly doesn't trust, how can you even begin to think that he will fall madly in love with you someday when he clearly doesn't trust you? Is it always gonna be like this when you're out with your friends? If you stay in this relationship, one day you'll wake up questioning yourself, doubting yourself, not trusting yourself. This relationship will only destroy your sense of self.

It sounds like he's insecure and may also have trust issues. Whatever his problem is, you have the right to be respected and trusted so you're not obligated to "prove" anything to him. If he can't accept you for the person that you are...friends and all...then you might want to rethink this relationship.

maybe you should talk to him about it. if he will not choose to trust you then why keep the relationship? love does not exist without trust. if you have not done anything to betray his trust before then you don't have to prove anything. Trust is freely given the first time, then when it has been broken, that is when you have to earn it all over again. you can also make him set reasonable boundaries that will assure him that you do not have any romantic relationship with any of your guy friends, yet will not cripple your friendship with them.

the last guy that pulled that with me was doing it himself. six months isn't really that long.you might consider walking away if he doesn't stop accusing you.that gets old after awhile.you might want to talk to him one more time about it,but after that,if he doesn't stop,he probably won't.

Hi. Alize997. He is very insecure and if he does not stop being this way with you, then the relationship is bound to become destroyed. Maybe you should show him that you are not cheating, by letting him see and know, that the guys that you are your guy friends are nothing more than that. If he still continues to act so jealous, then you are going to have to tell him that he has to go.

To me I feel like its always the person who's doing theaccusing is the one who is really cheating. I would ask him do he trust me, then if he say then you have to make your own choices from there but I think that if a relationship doesn't have trust it really doesn't have anything. I really don't know what to do to prove to a guy that you're not cheating, cause I think if he think it no matter what in the back of his mind he always gone think it no matter what he tell you.