What topics of converstion does your partner enjoy?

@HelScream (2822)
Philippines
June 18, 2009 6:47pm CST
well mostly me and my girl talk about anything at all we tried to be open as much as possible we have arguments due to misunderstanding, still now I cant figure yet what particular topic we most enjoy coz we almost enjoy talking just about anything everyday. Well I like it when we talk about how much we love each other and all this little simple things how about you what topic do you and your partner enjoy?
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19 responses
• United States
21 Jun 09
We talk about everything.so far we agree but then we haven't got to the deep , heavy topics yet but I can't wait.He is so nice to talk to.
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• United States
21 Jun 09
Deep and heavy? Well religion, politics, social issues. You know the topics that split people.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
what kind of deep heavy topics are those my friend can you dare to elaborate pls... well yeah just about anything same as me...
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@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
22 Jun 09
yeah got it same with my gf we avoid those topics as well.
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@Margajoe (4747)
• Germany
22 Jun 09
That is good when you have things to talk about. In the beginning my BF and I had lots of talks and it was very nice. Lately he gets irritated very easily. So , I don't say very much anymore. He has been spending more time in the pubs lately too. I hope he finds some other women. That would make things easier for me. I am happy that you and your girlfriend are happy together. So romantic talking about how much you love each other. That is great.
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@Margajoe (4747)
• Germany
24 Jun 09
So true. I cannot talk to him when he is drunk. Then he gives me nasty answers and belittles me. As if I am stupid. At those times I hate him and cannot find any respect for him. So, yes you are right, talk when he is sober. This morning he came home early too. ???? He is eating a lot more as well, maybe that is a good sign?? Take care Dan, have a great day!
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
mind me if I ask Joe whats a pubs? I ma not quite sure what it is. You know if he still loves you and I know he still do he cant find another women still ..... I still hope that everything will work out fine between you twoMe an my gf have been to a very rough time lately last few months and it's just recently that we are back to normal... and I know there will always be storms in our relationship but one must give in if the other is in a bad temper .... mostly I give in and give her time to think....have a good day now.
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@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
oh I am so happy for you already Joe acceptance from him is a good start w3hats worst is he does not know how to accept just dont talk to him when is drunk or have drink coz it would really make no sense talking to a drunk men your move is right talk to him when his sober by then he would realize his mistake maybe not instantly but at least he has accepted it
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
19 Jun 09
Hello bro, when I was in a relationship before, I love to talk with my partner anything under the sun. The topics are diverse, really and I love it when I could relate to my partner and my partner relating with me as well. Talking about interests, hobbies, likes, dislikes and etc. Most importantly, I believe in a happy relationship, both parties must have trust, understanding and could be best friends to each other. I hope your relationship lasts, all the best..
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
22 Jun 09
Hiya buddy, I love your description there. Thanks and I hope you will find 'the one' too someday and me too and we will enjoy our time with them, be happy and have lots of happy moments together and great memories too.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
23 Jun 09
Good luck to you too ..
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
Cant hardly wait for that moment my friend good luck and cheers to that
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
19 Jun 09
My Hubby likes to talk about things that are political that he knows I will not agree with. He loves to start these discussions and to try to get me emotionally involved. Every once in awhile I go along just to entertain him. This is what happens after 50 years of marriage so be prepared.
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@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
hahhaha well one good thing though me and my girls dont like politics at all so I wont have problems on that lol Well I could not start to imagine what my life would be and the topic of conversation I will have with my partner when I reach that age.
• Malaysia
19 Jun 09
My partner and i are very flexible when it comes to conversation.Since she is a very open minded person, we seems to be able to chat on any topic that we have.Usually we will talk about the politics in country and football.It is very rare to find someone that can talk about those guys topic and have a very fruitful conversation out of it.Sometimes i will also go into girls topic as well as she has so much to talk about when it comes to that.
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@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
hahah you are a lucky guy then to have found your right match well you know girls love to talk a lot just about anything and could go on for hours jsut talking about anything lol
@bingchen (1119)
• China
19 Jun 09
i like to talk something with my friends.because they have married ,so they often talk about their husband ,child, members in their family.in fact,my friends are older than me,i have never marry,so i often heard what they talk.i found that they often complained their life,they not only work as much as possible and also they look after their family. they met difficulty in their life. so they often talk about their own family. for example, they talk about their husband who could not earn enough money to make a living and feel not so good.they like to talk about thier child who make trouble and it is not easy to educate their child,and so on so i feel why they always be troubled by their family and compained their marriage is not so good, they thought that it is good for them whom are not married.thier discussion make me feel terrible and afraid to marry. i asked myself what is the happyness when you marry to other people one day. i could not hope that i complain with my family like them.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
hahaha I exactly know what you mean my friend I too am like that I heard all my friends and family who are already married talk almost negative things and disadvantage of getting married and told me never to marry and better stay single lol well at first this was my reason not to get married try to imagine I am already 30 and still single but now I realize that in life there will always be problems and in this problems it would define what kind of person you are if you know how to handle them.....this is nothing to be afraid of it's part of life ... good luck
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
23 Jun 09
My partner would not mind topics like the capital market and stocks and shares. Along with this I talk about a ny number of things and he would listen to them.Only thing is that I feel I talk too much a t times and then I would curb myself.After that I would be sitting with my book or internet.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
well we men love to listen women talk much coz most of us dont do much of the talking and only when asked but if something interesting comes up in our mind we really love to talk about it.
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
i'm glad to hear you must have ironed out some of the past issues you had before. it's nice to hear that you both enjoy talking about the little things in life. because those are the ones that spice up and add flavors to our daily life. in my last two relationships that lasted years... i did enjoy spending time with my boyfriend talking about almost anything under the sun. i like to feel connected to him everyday, and conversations do that. even if you spent the day doing different things, when you talk about it at the end of the day... it's like as if you were part of it... even if you were not physically there together.
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
oh i'm sorry. i thought you sounded fine... that everything seems to be fine with both of you.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
need not to be sorry myles this is natural in every relationship it's how you keep the relationship alive that really matters and a love that can stand the test of time.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
we are just hanging in there and not really ironed out myles even now every things going sour between us well thats what I get from a first timerwe who are older and more mature have to be more patience with them but I dont know where my patience will lead me ....well that was before we love to talk a lot and enjoy it but now everything change...well I guess we talk too much at skypes almost whole day that I think we need time and space to do our personal things....wishing you all the best my friend.
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
19 Jun 09
We talk about anything and everything! lol But probably we enjoy talking about firefighting, both structural and wildland, since we are both firefighters lol. We enjoy talking about weather, we are both Skywarn Weather Spotters. We also enjoy talking about our families, our kids, and the two pets in our lives, he has a cat and I have a puppy! Which will be meeting and living with each other after we're married in September, actually before that but...... lol. We also enjoy talking about our plans, our love and respect for one another.
• United States
19 Jun 09
I'm keepin an eye on that avatar, just to make sure it doesn't get outta control! LOL the date for the wedding is September 19th, unless it gets called on account of a fire! lol Not worried about that happening, no pagers, no cell phones, no two-way radios are allowed to be turned on that day! lol
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
oh no the firefighter again waaaa dont look at my avatar that much ok lol just kidding well thats very nice to hear that both of you are doing well and really have lots to talk about and lots of things in common.. I am still wishing you all the best this September by the way if you dont mind me asking what exact date is your wedding?
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@baileycows (3665)
• United States
19 Jun 09
Nothing at all my husband is a big knot on a log. He is so introverted and I really don't think that he enjoys anything unless it is on his terms. Me on the otherhand I am up for anything. I don't even know what attracted us we are complete opposites.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
same goes for me well as they say opposite attracts each other there something in him that you dont have and vice versa.but it's really ok though well you just have to start the talk in his interest then and see if he will go with the flow of the conversation.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
19 Jun 09
I tihnk we can talk about anything and mostly we like to talk about playing cards because it is both of our hobby.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
i wish i could play any games with my girl too but seems distance make it impossible to do this simple thing well someday we would be able to do just that.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
We enjoy the starting of our friendship before marriage. We like it to be talked always because that memories is so awesome and unforgettable. Funny to remember and we enjoy it the beginning of our love .That makes us enjying each other too.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
talking about the past memories would bring back the love that first started and how both of you became a couple in the first place. It will rekindle the ones upon a time love story you have with your partner and yes it's really nice conversation to begin with.
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
me and my hubby almost talks about anything but just by chatting online beacause were on a long distance relationship.We ussualy talk about our daily happenings at work,how the day ends and anything goes after.No particular topic we enjoyed talking about all i know is that when we talk we just enjoy every second of it.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
hello yellowbell same here I too have a long distant relationship and we talk a lot and we do enjoy every moment of it and sometimes we argue still online lol well thats the way it goes with long distance relationship.
• United States
19 Jun 09
My bf and I also enjoy talking about everything. I think that's the best part of our relationship. We can have random conversations about anything--from cereal, to movies, to people watching, to rollercoasters, to childhood TV shows and commercials. We also never hold back our opinions, and we're not afraid to sound ridiculous about each other. Spending time together is never boring bc of that. Being able to talk about everything is a gift. Many partners can't do that. Having only one thing to talk about all the time could get boring. What if you run out of things to say about that topic? Then it's like, "Hmm now what do we talk about?" then...*awkward silence*.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
well sometimes we cant also help that we ran out of topics specially if you talk whole day and everyday with your partner but silence can sometimes be a way of conversing in such a way that we dont need words to know what one thinks
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
19 Jun 09
Since my husband and I have grown children from previous relationships and a total of 9 grandchildren we usually have something that has to do with one or more of them to talk about. We also run a business together so we talk about that...make plans, discuss what's going on with this customer or that bike...what we want to or need to buy. We both like riding motorcycles so we talk about them or our plans. There's quite a few things we talk about on a regular basis but these are some of the more common ones.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
it's nice to hear couples have lots of interesting things and topics to talk about yeah I bet you never run out of topics since you already have grandchildren and your children are all grown up so you have more time for your partner to talk just about anything.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
My partner and I enjoy talking about what's happening in the politics and entertainment world. We will have a debate then and most of the time she win. I just pretend to swallow my defeat 'coz she like that.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
hahahha well thats to gentlemen of you my friend well my gf dont like talking about politics and not all couples love that topic either.
@agrim94 (3805)
• India
26 Jun 09
hi helscream, the girl i like is a religious and would always be happy talking about Christianity and would talk about anything distinctly related to bible, old testament, new testament or anything about Jesus what ever situation or time is.. I being non christian and not much in to religion and i do make her angry if i ever say something which is not total obedience of bible. so these days i am lot careful what i say about Christianity.
@Ammudoll (549)
• India
27 Jun 09
Generally we talk about the incidents happen or issues going on in my family and their family. if he makes a call to his familt then he will tell what he spoke to them about us, once we are done with the talks. He'll begin his notorious way of talking. Most of the time he talks about love at bed time and how we both should act. If I am not comfortable then he asks me to tell that, so he will try in different way. some thing related to such matters you know.
• United States
19 Jun 09
good add