How long have you waited for any person ?
By K.Rajib G.
@krajibg (11922)
Guwahati, India
June 19, 2009 1:31am CST
Life is wonderful. What not it has in store for you? It has every possibility embedded in it for you. Stop fretting and reflect upon life and there you would get a Chiragdin of Alladin that would fulfil all your wishes.
Life test you at times and if you are able to stand it out you would get paid. If not all grief and sadness of not getting.
Just the other day I had an appointment with a young minister who was my class mate for 5 years and when he became the General Secretary of the College Students' Body I was secretary of games and Sports. And that fellow is now a powerful minister and I am mere a college teacher. We still have the same good rapport and he treats me just the way he used to as we were classmate some 15 years back.
The thing I would like to ask you here is how long have you waited for any person? One hour? 4 hrs? 6 hrs? But believe me the minister friend was so busy that day that I had to wait for long 8 ( eight ) hours for him. And when finally met him he said a sorry. But my purpose of seeing him was successful.
Rajib. 19.06.09
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16 responses
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
19 Jun 09
I think you should have earned yourself an award for having that patience to wait for someone for that gruesome 8 hours wait. I don't have all the patience in the world to wait for a person for that length of time, who cares if he is a VVIP. But you are the man of the hour. You never give up on what you really know you should do. Winners simply do what losers don't want to do ....longer. Well, it is well worth the wait as you accomplished your mission. If it had been me I would break free from all protocols since he is my best buddy and would just storm in his office. Am sure it would have been a pleasant surprise for him and would not mind an unofficial visit unannounced from an old friend.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
19 Jun 09
Hi zandi,
You have a point. Had it been not he and any other minister I would not wait that long. We had a talk over phone the day before that day and unfortunately he had lots of meetings and press meets and all. Once he came to his chamber and seeing me said ' Rajib just wait I am coming' and as i rang him up he said to wait. This way I was bound and to break all protocol he was never in his chamber to rush into. If I had came out it would make him feel bad. So this resulted in this patience test.
Thanks any ways.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
20 Jun 09
hats off to you sir!!!
even if i have patience i would not wait for anyone for so long. i would rather politely refuse to see the person if it takes so long and fix an appintment for another day. in case they don't have the other day then i would not even request for the other day.
bad behaviour on my part, i guess...but i cannot wait for any one.
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
20 Jun 09
Hi sis,
You are right. Bruit he was my friend for five long years and when he messaged me t=o wait I could not help waiting d=for him. And when he came he asked the PS to call me and and I felt privileged.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
20 Jun 09
Hi sis,
You are right. Bruit he was my friend for five long years and when he messaged me t=o wait I could not help waiting d=for him. And when he came he asked the PS to call me and and I felt privileged.
@blackmantra_x (2732)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
Good day... For me waiting is a part of achieving something. I don't mind waiting I am a patient person. I could wait a whole day for a person if need be just as long that person would show up and treat me as a person needs to be treated.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
20 Jun 09
Hi there,
Waiting was not my forte. But that day it came up in such a form that I could not help waiting and the wait was fruitful any ways.
Thanks for the response.
@celticeagle (167211)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Jun 09
If I knew the circumstances and all I would certainly wait. If a good friend all the more reason to wait. I am usually early for most appointments so it might begin to weigh on me after afew hours. I always carry a book and a journal with me so I wouldn't totally at a loss for things to do. If I find they are being rude and just not managing their time very well then I might act a bit differently.
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@celticeagle (167211)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Jun 09
Yes, I think it really depends on the situation and an apology really does seem to put things right.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
wow krajibg that was indeed a very long time for waiting! you must be soooooo patient! but i'm not like you. i find it a little annoying to wait for long hours especially when it is scheduled ahead ( i mean appointment) coz sometimes its like a waste of time...i remember one of my teacher in high school told us about coming on time...she said" if you come so early you waste some of your time, if you come late, you waste other people's time...so always come on time!"
but in some cases we really needs to be patient and considerate coz there might be something that happens that causes the delay...maybe something that is really important. its ok for me to wait for that long as long as he informed me that he will be that late! so that i will not get annoyed. hehehe
i also do wait even how long when my purpose for seeing him is very important that can't wait for another day... so case to case basis...as some says patience is a virtue!
and nice to hear that your purpose on seeing your friend is a success...so its worth the wait.
have a nice day !
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
20 Jun 09
Hi there,
It was a sort of protocol for me too. As I sent him a message he asked me to wait for some time. Now though my class mate he is an honorable minister and if I had left without telling him it would be a rudeness. Hence I waite and tested my patience too.
Thanks for the response/
@Ammudoll (549)
• India
20 Jun 09
I don't remember If I have waited for some one who are close to me but I made my bf to wait for 1 hour and this is long time back. Now Iam going on time to meet him :)
Krajib you have got really a very nice friend who is very down to earth and respects the value of friendship.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
20 Jun 09
Hi,
It was a real boasting one. Thanks for the response.
@Darkwing (21583)
•
22 Jun 09
I think if you have an pre-arranged appointment with somebody like your minister, it's well worth waiting several hours. You can always busy yourself with something, excuse yourself for half an hour whilst you go take a walk, or some lunch. I'm sure that in the end, your wait was forgotten, when you finally got to meet this long-lost classmate. I don't know how long I could have sat there and waiting but as I said, I would probably have excused myself and come back a little later, after a break.
Brightest Blessings, my friend.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
I waited for somebody a close friend of mine way back in high school.
We are planning to meet since it's been ages the last time we talk.
I waited in the fast food restaurant for two hours. Finally he come
and ask sorry because some emergency come up in the household. I said
that it's okay and we started to talk about our past
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
19 Jun 09
Hi reckon,
That is two less as you were waiting for your friend and there was anxiety and therefore the wait was not too painful I guess.
Thanks a lot for the response.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
19 Jun 09
I obviously think a lot of this man and decided he was worth the wait, because 8 hours is an awfully long time! I can understand it being a meeting of great significance for you.
The longest time I ever wait for anybody these days is in the doctor’s office, he is a couple of hours late sometimes! Oh… I remember waiting at an airport for almost 24 hours for a delayed connecting flight once! Fortunately I met a man destined for the same place so we kept each other company and looked after each other’s luggage for bathroom breaks etc.
As I get older and less impatient I can handle waiting a lot better than I used to!
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
19 Jun 09
Hi Paula, that is right and you guessed it right. No other ministers as such were there in their chamber except him and that day he had a hectic schedule and only after that he phoned me to stay and wait I was there or else I would have long back home. It was a question of prestige for both of us. But it proved my patience as well
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@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
19 Jun 09
Thats terrible...I cannot wait for a very long time for somebody.I become very impatient..I had to keep my self busy by doing something like,listening to music.... Last time I remember,I had to wait for a friend for 30 minutes.... It seems that those were 30 long minutes...I was so restless...
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
19 Jun 09
Hi kiki,
This is the patience friend. You cultivate and you would not feel how long you were on wait. I too am a restless fellow but I was caught in a whirlpool of relation. He was my friend and he did not make me wait for nothing. Was too tightly scheduled and had no way. It was my first ever long wait.
I recollected the characters in the play "Waiting for Godot".
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
18 Jul 09
Hello my friend krajibg Ji,
Well to be true to your discussion, the longest wait was for my hubby to arrive in my life 24 yrs , very long period. May God bless you and have a great time.
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
2 Jul 09
Rajib-
Well, first off I would not want a Jin from Aladin, I've heard they are not the entire nice little things Disney makes them out to be, but very nasty creatures to be avoided. So, nope, no jin wishing for this lady.
As far as waiting for a friend, if I were so blessed as to have a friend in such a powerful position as such, I would be inclined to wait as long as was needed. It seems that your wait paid off for you in that your meeting went well. It is the friendship that matters in the long run, and I am sure he was just as blessed by his dear friend putting up with his schedule to wait around to enjoy his company. I would hope that a friend would keep me comfortable at least though with a spot of tea or such with such a wait, but if not I would still wait and hope I brought a good book with me to pass the time. (Meditation works as well).
Namaste-Anora
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
19 Jun 09
Waiting is a major pain, it is hard to do.. Honestly I have waited for people a lot longer then that... May be it is because of the fact that well, I can not do certain things on my own because of my disabilities.. It can get rather frustrating, and point blank piss me off.. Then after all of that waiting, what I was expecting did not happen at all.. That is the worst.. Currently I am waiting, for someone.. Its been over a year, this person told me that they were going to marry me, but has pushed it back, and came up with every excuse know to man, but for one reason or another I am still waiting... Things are starting to look more promising but I have to come to terns there may be a chance I will never marry this person, even though I love this man with all of my heart.. And my son has been looking up to him as a father figure in his life.. Doubts and irritations have made waiting hard some days, but one thing that I have learned in my life, waiting either is worth while after all the time.. Or life teaches you a very powerful lesson. It depends on the individual to see the lesson, and learn from it.. It all depends on how much of yourself you are willing to put out for someone else.. Even if your hearts on the line, without the other person really understanding how you feel... The choice is yours.. Good luck my friend
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
20 Jun 09
Hi there,
This was indeed a long wait but was a fruitful one. I am happy that my class mate was not a different individual.
Thanks for the response.
@Fran69 (9)
• United States
19 Jun 09
8 hours is very long. As long as it was worth it is all that matters. It might sound silly and foolish because I am so young but I ended up falling in love with a girl and I waited over a year for her to fall for me as well. It didn't work and at times I feel like I will always wait for her. But just on a friend never that long.
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
20 Jun 09
Hi there,
That is quite different. Falling in love and wait for a long time there is a sort of magic and you do not feel the boredom.But my case was different and there was attached my own interest as well.
Thanks for the response.
@maikarumike (458)
• Malaysia
19 Jun 09
I have waited for my current girlfriend for almost a decade for real.I started liking her when we were in high school and that was when i was 15. She knew about it but she wasn't keen to get into a relationship at all at the moment.She told me to wait for her until high school was over and i did.When we were 19 highschool was over and she said she wanted to pursue her degree and get a good job before being involved into a serious relationship,and so i waited and waited.I graduated first before her by one year and started working first.When she graduated and got a stable job she told me that she was ready and we started dating and it lasted for a few years until now.i am quite happy with my love life now and we are getting married at the end of the year.
@glords (2614)
• United States
20 Jun 09
wow that is a long time. I guess it depends on who I was meeting, for a friend I would wait a very long time. I'm glad that you had a chance to meet with your friend, and that you were able to accomplish your agenda and renew old ties. It is important to keep in touch with friends.