its on the tip of my tongue...

@ckyera (17331)
Philippines
June 19, 2009 2:30am CST
have you experienced things like this? when you are in a conversation and then forget something that you wanted to say...but its all in your mind just that you can't say it...? well it happens to me sometimes, that when we're talking a bout something and then one ask my what's that...i feel that i really know the answer but just can't tell what it is...its just on my mind and i just can't express it and i will just ends up saying..."i knew it...its on the tip of my tongue!" do you have same experience? thanks and have a good day!
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17 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
19 Jun 09
Yeah, and i hate it whenever that happens.. lol =D It's just that losing something right in front your eyes when u are already holding it.. hehe ^_^ I just hated that feeling because it will make me so uncomfortable throughout the whole day, till i finally remember what i wanna say.. lol =D The more i try to force myself or hint myself, i always dun seem to get it out, till i distract myself.. ONly then, all those exact words will come to mind but it will be too late by then.. haha =D
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
yes casper..oops kun2349! you said it so, more often than not, we just came ot remember the exact word when its too late! thanks!
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
19 Jun 09
lol =D Yeah, that's why casper's eyes are so big in my avatar, so that it's able to see those words in mind, before losing it at the tip of tongue.. lol =D
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
hahaha....
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• Philippines
19 Jun 09
I have! and I hate it when it happens.. Specially when I'm talking to my boss or to a client, and I suddenly forget the right term, or the right english word for what I'm going to say. It is quite embarrassing, but my boss just laughs at it and say " that's a senior moment! " LOL!
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
oh well ingkingderders you really are so lucky to have such a boss like you have...not all people are blessed with a great boss! :-)
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
dah! its really frustrating and a little embarrassing when it happens in front of our boss or clients...waaaah...and especially if it happens during presentation what is sometimes annoying is that the word the we forget is the simplest one... but anyway, its good that your boss understands...
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
I know! I have the best boss in the world. =)
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
19 Jun 09
Yes, this happens to me all of the time. I can be thinking of what I want to say. And when it comes time to actually say it, my mind goes completely blank... And I am like, man shoot!!! I am trying to get the words back to my tongue.. Hopefully what I have to say will come back to me very soon..
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
but more often than not...things that we want to say comes back when its too late! hehehe thanks cream! i like your name...sounds like ice cream!
@figjam00 (1445)
• India
19 Jun 09
That thing happens a lot to me and most of the times it comes when I want to say something really important he he. Suddenly that things disappears from my mind. It is kinda strange, according to me that happens when we start things about many things at a time. Our mind cant do multi tasking!!
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
oh really? maybe its right...does it mean that our minds can't accommodate tons of ideas at the same time? that it tends to forget some...mmmmmm thanks for response...:-)
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
Yes it is true ckyera I also have that experiences. It is the result of so many things we have in our mind. It is fully loaded like cellphone it will hang up if there are full messages in the inbox. Just like us humans forgot because we have many thinkings and plan for the weekened. Suddenly as one ask we will get mental block. We need to recharge or pause or something have a rest for a while after few minutes we remeber it when the one asking is already gone heheheh.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
hehehe...that's true! i agree with you...
@nimzia (388)
• India
19 Jun 09
Hai my dear friend,when you discuss this,i feel same as my problem.I always have this same problem of forgetting,not really forgetting that's here in my toungue i can't say that.I think not only for us but for average people this problem was there.I have no solutions for this in my hand.Good luck.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
hello there nimzia! i think its really common in almost all people and it really happens to all of us at one point in our life... thanks for participation...
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Jun 09
hi ckyera..well yeah i had experienced it so many times..and feel frustrated if i cant remember it..does thsi means that i am getting older..? is age the culprit behind this? hope not how old are you?/
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
hello vanities... i don't think so and i don't want to think that its about aging! hehehe...i'm just 28 and i hope its not yet "that' old... i know sometimes if this forgetting something happens...they say that its because of getting older...:-( but anyway, i know it happens to most of us even on younger age coz i already have this experience when i am just on high school... thanks! :-)
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
Yes...I always experienced that in the middle of a conversation. I have to stop because I forgot what will I'm going to say next or if somebody asked me a question and I know the answer, the moment I open my mouth it's already blank. I can't say it. Sometimes it's so very frustrating.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
yes its true...frustrating and sometimes a real headache! coz i like me, i tend to think about it until i finally remembers it...there are times that even before i sleep i keep on thinking what it is... thanks reckon!
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
yup, i have experienced it many time already.you know the certain thing and the certain word but you just can't let it slip out of your tongue.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
i think it happens to almost all of us...if not all the time, most of the time! thanks! :-)
@jessi0887 (2788)
• United States
19 Jun 09
That happens alot to me. I will be ready to tell somewhat about something then they interupt. I then get so focused on what they are talking about that I forget what i wanted to say. And they will be like what is it you wanted to say. So I just reply I will ask you later when I remember. Its rather annoying but I dont stress it.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
oh yes jessi, that's annoying...i hate moments like that, that when i am saying something the people you're talking to will interrupt...and that mostly resulted for forgetting the next things that i wanted to say...and which makes me wait for a next time or few minutes/time before i remember it again and worst sometimes it don't come back to my memory at all... thanks jessi for response!
@daliaj (5674)
• India
19 Jun 09
This is an intersting topic. Yes, the same problem happened to me a lot of times. I am very poor in remembering dates and names. I faced this problem a lot while discussion about movies. I forget easily the name of the movie eventhough I know about the director, the main characters, and the story. It is a strange situation.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
oh yes...it feels like you almost said everything about a certain thing...the only thing that you can't tell is the most important one...and whew! its a head ache! does it happen to you that you hardly get sleep just thinking what it is? and then when you finally remember you will feel like saying "doh!" is that all i am thinking? hehehe thanks for sharing...
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
19 Jun 09
Hi, this is natural to all. There would be any one who has not experienced this. This happens due to the over stress on the subconscious mind. When we talk this is the conscious mind in action and that we tend to forget a specific word or phrase is the result that the subconscious mind is rooted elsewhere. We call it deadlock. It hardly would come to your recollection in this situation.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
hello krajibg! oh i see...well,thanks for those information...
@med889 (5941)
19 Jun 09
I know very well what does that means because I have been encountering the same situation many times in my life and then others think that I am turning old but infact it is not a matter of age totally because I do remember that thing but I hardly come to say it so it is quite frustrating and funny sometimes.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
hahaha...yeah! its sometimes funny being under this situation...how we squeeze our mind just to say what we really wanted to say...and like you my friends sometimes told me...hey you're getting old that's why you don't remember things.... but anyway its ok with me, coz i know that also happens to them... thanks med for sharing...
• China
19 Jun 09
Interesting,yes,i think that happens. I sometimes came across a former classmate on the road,but I often can't remember his or her name,though the classmate was the one that I was very familiar with in school,I just couldn't call them correctly,it was embarrassing. lol So,I am a little afraid to come across my former classmates now.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
hehehe, that also happens to me ometimes and yes its quite embarrassing! it seems that we remember everything, every moment we have with them...except for their names! hehehe
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@balasri (26537)
• India
19 Jun 09
Most of the time.Especially in the quiz programs to the utter dismay of me.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
That all happen to us because our minds sometimes forgets specially when you reach at your "forgettable age" that's normal except for those really have had medical reasons...
@peace001 (726)
• China
19 Jun 09
of couse!I am in this sometimes.I don't know how to explain some questions to my friends,but I know that I can answer it.it is so strange to us,maybe the God want to tell us that we must listen more ,and talk less in this way.