long dis relationship

Canada
June 19, 2009 6:14am CST
i been in a long dis relationship for about 12 months now and we have planed to live together but when the time came for me to move she changed her mind more then once but she says she loves me and misses me all the time but yet she never wants me to move there im confussed should i just move on or just let time take its place in life ???????
2 responses
kaguvkov
@kaguvkov (1318)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Jun 09
Long distance relationship is very hard to maintain. Trust creates doubt in the relation and if trust is the issue, no relationship can survive if one of the both parties have no more trust already to their partners. Maintaining love is like watering plants, you have to water the plants so as not to die dry. Love is also like that, you have to water it so that it will grow.
Caylaxx
@Caylaxx (96)
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19 Jun 09
Shes ovbiously not ready to take you relationship to the next level. Give her time or else sit down and talk to her and ask her does she see your relationship moving forward instead of staying at a steady pace