My Daughter is turning 13

I take it this is your oldest and most likely your first girl. I wish I could give you advice but I can't. I only have one child who is far from teen years. I will tell you though its normal. I went through that phase but not nearly as bad as my sister. My sister who I was forced to share a room with. Would leave things laying around all the time. When she was asked to clean she would stuff everything under the bed or in the closet which made things worse. You could literally find food under the bed or on her dresser. It was discusting. Thats one thing. Her attitude which hasn't gotten any better now that she is 18. She says bad words in almost every sentence. She yells at our mom and dad over little things. That is no way of describing the things I have witnessed I just wanted to let you know your not alone. Maybe someone else though can give you actual advice.

Communication is key in any relationship. Communicate LOVE The more the better. Give choices then let her decide the consequences. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Wishy washy never works. Lastly, Be her best friend rather than her BOSS!! Couple this with some quality one on one time things should work out.