For all the guys out there...

My husband and I are both on Mylot, and I'm going to send this to him as soon as I'm done typing this response. i will say that he and i discussed all the big things in our lives before we got married. We discussed children or no children, we discussed living, finances, etc. all the big stuff, and made sure we were in agreement long before we got married. We decided on no children. I never wanted to have children, and he had plenty.

I would have searched for one like that! I've got 10 kids, which is way too many. There are too many people on the planet as it is. Statistically, to maintain a stable population, a couple needs 2.1 kids. Any more increases the number of people.

I am a woman and I would like a childless marriage.right now,all I have to do is tell my future husband VERY EARLY that I don't want children.marriage is partnership between two people who love and respect each other.marriage doesn't solely mean to have pop out children.I believe I will be a good wife,but not a good mother.call me selfish,but spending the rest of my life without children is the best thing for me.

Hi, My hubby is at a summer music festival, but I know if he were here, he'd want to say no kids please. We talked about this before we got married, and we were both in agreement, mostly because of the expense. But we also had something else in common, and that is that we both had many brothers and sisters that were pains in the rear, as children they were always fighting and screaming at the top of their lungs, and so now as adults we can live in peace and quiet. Our nerves are shot. For those who want children, that's great, it's a free country. Not everyone is meant to be parents, and personally, I don't think I'd have the patience and be as good a mother as my mother was.

There are reason why they dont want to have a kid, i understand if my wife dont like to as long she a right reasons... But i dont mind that because she want to have a baby.