8 Keys to Success with Women... read on (guys and girls) for all of us!
By jheLaichie
@jheLaichie (4438)
Philippines
June 19, 2009 10:47pm CST
this is not gor guys only but for us girls, women as well.
i got this from a site which caught my attention and i like the facts and the ways on how we are girls to be pursued on. we girls have different taste and likeness when it comes to our mates but those who are still in a state on confusion can read on and be enlighten with some of our identities. we are fickle minded individuals but when it comes to love and with all that sort, we all but have some same charateristics.
1. always judge a Women by the way she ACTS...and NOT by the way she tells you.
go by how she acts. you have eyes. you know when womens actions dont match up with her words.
2. dont try to IMPRESS a women but rather try to INTEREST her.
there is a difference!!! when you IMPRESS her, you are getting a women in a short term. you like a magician, finding new tricks but unfortuantely if you cant find anything new, its like nothing.
BUT when you INTEREST a women. you are like a paintor, you paint with total awe and even when time passes by its still beautiful, timeless. And all who look upon the painting know that its GENUINE beauty.
3. its ironic because even if a girl dont like all your gifts or token wont do a thing. but when a girl likes you, still all those things are unneeded.
4. its all about SELF IMPROVEMENT
when a guys works out, studied hard, finds a rewarding career, improving his life, fulfilling his dreams and focuses on improving himself physically, socially, mentally and spiritually. a women takes notice.
AMBITION is attractive to women because with that they see a true potential of guy striving for perfection and obtaining what he desires most. even if the guy is poor, if his ambition burns through his soul. that a very good potential.
5. the only way to have a happy life is to first develop it with in yourself and let others come in and share it with you.
women will not fulfill your life. YOU MUST FULFILL YOUR OWN LIFE.
6. observe the best salesmen
If you are a wise man you'll learn from the best salesmen. Watch, observe, study and read him. BECOME HIM. getting a woman is the ability to SELL. You have to show her why YOU are BETTER than the other men.
7. know this rule about women. a women who truly likes you MAKES TIME to be WITH YOU.
a women who truly like you will never be too busy for you. if she tells you she is busy, understand her. because women always finds time to a men she truly loves.
8. the right way to talk to a girl...
it doesnt do any good if you may have pick up lines or memorize some. the best way to talk to a women is to be interesting. act like she knows you and you are to her too. the way you talk to your friends and the people you know, you should also talk to her like that but talk and add a tinge of sexuality, that also have or show genuine interest in her. to let her know that she is a women and your a men. When you make a woman comfortable, then you have completed the most difficult obstacle of all.
happy reading my friends. comments are all so welcome! join in!
thanks
jhelai
2 people like this
3 responses
@GraySpirit (103)
• United States
20 Jun 09
Here is what life has taught me. Women are unpredictable. If you follow a set of rules, you will not succeed.
Learn who the girl or woman is. On the first day, adapt to create a happy relationship. A rule that works today will not work tomorrow. On the second day, adapt again to sustain the relationship with the changed rules. Now that you think you have her figured out ... guess again. The rules have changed again. On the third day ... adapt, adapt, adapt.
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
nice view of what women are my friend. and you are totally right. and i like your ways., adapt! thats one of the things you need to do in order for you both to enjoy each others company.
thanks so much friend
jhelai
2 people like this
@GraySpirit (103)
• United States
21 Jun 09
salamat po for the interesting question.
2 people like this
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
and you are so welcome my friend. happy mylotting.
jhelai
1 person likes this
@vetiver12 (163)
• Spain
20 Jun 09
that is some good advice you have there.
And I would add too, for a man, if you see a woman you like, don´t share it with your friends, don´t make all the group to make them stare at her......
Well, although I don´t know if that´s effective with some woman, but I think that mainly, when a woman is in that situation, she doesn´t like anyone at all, and those men have no possibilites in any sense. It´s very embarrasing also for the woman.
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
that good my friend and thanks that i could be of help to everyone here. thanks so much.
jhelai
1 person likes this
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
well that would be nice my friend. thanks
1 person likes this
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
whah! i forgot to copy paste the site and now i totally forgotten where i find this one. i even forgot to save it. shucks. what a shame. hope its fine then. sorry my friend.
and thanks for responding
jhelai
1 person likes this