Have You Ever Had a Bad Morning..
By Payout
@payout (3794)
United States
June 21, 2009 11:19am CST
Today was the worst morning I think I can ever think of.
My Boyfriend got upset because he checked my myspace and saw me talking to some guy. He said I was cute and I said it back. I told him I remember seeing you before. The person goes I would of remember if i saw you.
Now he is mad and say it's over.. .
But my Boyfriend n I are gay . So he was talking to some guys and go hey sexy and all this stuff.
I have to forgive him.. NO matter what he has does this many times too..
I said Why can't that person be my friend you find one of your co workers that are gay cute and you have his number and go out with him sometimes..? Makes no senses.
I told him yeah I mad a stupid mistake and I said yeah I found him cute but doesn't mean I find him sexy and want to talk to him. HE has gay friends so why can't I..?
We have been on a break for like little over 2 weeks now. n He tells me today I was going to give up all those people and be with you forever. I made up my mind but I guess you made up yours and want to mess with other people.
I tell him I will give up anyone for especially people I just met.. But he can't do that for me..
IDK ..... That's just my Bad MOrning.. // :(
Hopefully things will turn out Great in the end.
[b]HAVE YOU EVER HAD A BAD MORNING..?
TELL ME ABOUT IT?
HOW DID THINGS TURN OUR ?
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3 responses
@beautyqueen26 (16030)
• United States
21 Jun 09
Well, I got just over four hours sleep.
So that kind of makes it bad for me.
As for your boyfriend, he's stupid to leave
you over some silly Internet comment.
Boyfriends are really dumb sometimes!
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@georginaswift86 (111)
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21 Jun 09
I think that you may be better off without him. He's been chatting people up and you have forgiven him. You are clearly madly in love with this person or are fearful of being without him.
However, you have now done something similar. Whether you agree or not, you crossed a line that you established. You said to him that it was not okay to compliment other men and then you throw compliments at other men afterwards. I appreciate that you were probably being polite but a 'thank you' would have sufficed.
You are agreeing to 'give up' people for him and to make the relationship work. You should not have to do that if all was innocent. Clearly, you do not believe that you are in the wrong, so you need to stand your ground and acknowledge his feelings but you should not change your relationships with others for him.
Take a break and think about what you want. Are you getting what you want out of the relationship? If not, you'll meet someone else. Of course breaking up will hurt and you will ache for a while; it always does but in time, wounds will heal and you will be stronger.
That is just my view. Please do not take offence if you do not agree.
@trickiwoo (2702)
• United States
21 Jun 09
I'm sorry you and your boyfriend got in a fight. It definitely sounds like he has a double standard where it's ok for him to talk to other guys, but it's not ok for you to do so. It's ok for both of you to have other friends, but it is probably inappropriate for either of you to be flirting with other guys and telling them you think they're cute. So if another guy compliments you, you should thank him but let him know that you're in a relationship and are not interested in being anything more than friends! I'm sure your boyfriend would appreciate that!
