tell me...........

Why only have one when you can have both? I'll ask him to move with me! =D Then I don't have to give him up. Plus, he's the one who's itching to move anyway. On the real though, if it were a choice that I have to make - nope. I love him too much. All that "better life and job" wouldn't mean much if he's not there with me. Interestingly enough, we've talked about this possibility for either one of us. Of course the idea is that the other person will soon follow (if he/she's not going with at the same time). Is that going to work? I don't really know.

Hi friendship4lyfe, it really depends on what I feel, if I don't really am serious with our relationship yes I will go work abroad. But if I really love her I'll just let her understand that life here is kind a bad, and I want to work abroad anyway it's for our future too. If she understand my reasoning it will be better. Anyway it's just gonna be just a few years and going back to be with her. And we still be communicating with each other even I am that far from her, my heart will still belong to her even I am away. Have a nice day to you!

you don't have to give up love.. why even make this as an option? try talking with your partner about this thoroughly and malke an arrangement on how to go over the loops pf your relationship when you're already apart. I've known a couple of people whose still together despite of the fact that their partneres works overseas. it may surprise you...

Why give up the love if you can still have both love and a better life thru job abroad? When you asked that question, were you saying that the partner was in contrast to the idea of them being away from each other? If so, are there valid reasons? Should it happen to me, I would assess the situation first. My partner and I will have a real talk so we could explain our side. I know long distance relationship is prone to temptations. But it still depends on the individual. On the individual's values for that matter.

base on my own experience, i did not give up my love just to go abroad for a better life, My mom was inviting me to stay in germany 3 yrs ago but I refused to, I did not want to leave my boyfriend who is my husband now... Glad I did the right decision, now I'm happily married with 2 kids...Anyway I can still go there in germany together with my own family anytime.

Sorry for you,it's hard to make such a decision.As for me,I choose love maybe.

I'm not sure. I have never found love so i wouldn't know.