What do you do if she just dose not like you
By pbrockington
@pbrockington (500)
United States
June 21, 2009 1:42pm CST
About a week ago I had a dream where my hubby's mother was bad mouthing me to somone on the phone. When I woke up all I could hear was her voice in my head saying "I am not sure who she thinks she is or why my son thinks she is so specail..." then last night was this first time I had seen here since I had this dream. Well my five month old son screamed and cried last night when she came near him or me. My son has never done that he usually loves this women. What do you make of this.
8 responses
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
21 Jun 09
I believe that you are making the dream into reality. Your son screaming at his grandmother should not be link to your dream. There are times when the bad spirits that is random in this world try to break up a good relationship and they will attacked by allowing the person to dream and using whatever is in the area at the time to manifest it. Pray against this my friend because the bible says we fight not against flesh and blood but principalities and spiritual wickedness in high place. Continue to have that peaceful relationship with your mother in law.
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@pbrockington (500)
• United States
21 Jun 09
Now I totally agree with you when you mentioned we do not fight against flesh and blood. But while I had this dream a few days later some things were told to me by my guy. Something he had not share. Then some other drama followed. Because my guy had finally shared with me what he had been keeping away from me i saw no reason for him to lie about the other drama. But a person whom i don't know called me and spokeof my personal business as if she had spoken to my guy or somone else whom knew these things about me. I asked my guy and he told me that he had no idea how this person knew the things she said to me. Me informing him of this bothered him because he said his mother had communicated with this otside person before. I think my son can see what I try to over look.
@Kolla08 (48)
• United States
22 Jun 09
I think that babies know when people have genuwinely good hearts. And they definately know when people dont. One thing that children will do is tell the truth about the adults that they are around. I think that you should pay close attention to not the things that your mother in law says but the things she does. My mother in law loves me and calls me almost everyday. She asks me all the time what im doing and if i want to go out with her. She takes me out to dinner, and gets on her son if he does something wrong by me. I personally believe that these are things that a mother in law does when she likes her daughter in law. Not only this but she also gives me advice on how to better me and her sons relationship so that we can take our relationship as far as it can possibly go. This is how i know my mother in law likes me and cares about me, not only as a person but as her sons wifey. Now whether she likes you or not doesnt matter because the love you have for her son should over come anything negative you may feel from her.
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@airakumar (1553)
• India
22 Jun 09
Hey, I think, you are very much serious about your dreams. Dreams are just fantacy and there is no relation with reality. Your dream has no connection with the incident. So be cool and enjoy your life. Be happy!!!
@qiao522 (449)
• China
22 Jun 09
Though I haven't been through exactly where you are, but I think the similar situation happened to me a couple of years ago. I really liked a guy and he liked me too.But his mother said that I was too short for her son and her son deserved much better. That hurt a lot you know!
@dreaminaframe (19)
• United States
22 Jun 09
I agree with a few other posters - that you're making a dream into reality. As long as you know that have a pretty decent relationship with your hubby's mom, then it should not be a big deal. I would honestly ignore that it happened, and when looking back a few years down the road, I'd probably laugh at the fact. Babies just sometimes want to scream and cry, and when your son did this, it just seemed very coincidental, like it meant something.
