Is it okey to like somebody even if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
By puzzleover
@puzzleover (20)
Philippines
4 responses
@sherryzheng (27)
• China
22 Jun 09
I think it`s a wrong idea.If you have already had a boyfriend/girlfriend,you should treat him/her carefully with your love,you shouldn`t like others.I don`t like this kind of people at all.
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@wangchunxia (701)
• China
8 Jul 09
HEY, my dear friend, it is a wrong idea , and it will hurt others , i hope you are not the person!
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
22 Jun 09
This question is relative. I like lots of people, and I love all of my friends and family. I adore some of my work mates, and I am attracted to others.
Your thoughts, are the only thing, that is truly up to you whether or not you share them. If you are in a committed relationship, and you find yourself developing feelings for another person, you are presented with a choice. Pursue, or stay faithful.
But how far can you pursue without crossing the line?
I personally would prefer to get to know this person better and find out why I feel attracted to them, but it is your Actions, not your thoughts that display your character. So, get to know them better, but no kissing.
If after a while you feel they are a better match for you then your current significant other, introduce the two of them, and see how they get along, you may even get a threesome out of it.
Probably Not though.
In all seriousness, be VERY careful in these situations. Learn the reasons why, why the attraction, why you love your spouse and in the end, go where ever your heart takes you. But it is not wrong to have feelings towards other people even if you are "taken" it is wrong to act on those urges though.
Take Care.
@minckler104 (28)
• United States
2 Jul 09
I don't think that its wrong to have a crush or to like someone else while you are in another relationship. It's natural. But I don't think its right to be in love with someone else while in a relationship. That's not fare to the other person. If you have fallen in love with someone else, then obviously you have fell out of love with the other. I don't think you can be in love with 2 people at the same time.