Have you ever think I wanna marry him/her without knowing that person ?
By lita_nurse
@lita_nurse (440)
United States
June 22, 2009 12:24am CST
I've just remember the story of my uncle who is my friend He saw this beautiful woman standing on the bus stop near to his college and He though that on his mind I wanna marry her... and then .. days before he saw her on his college .... and in fact she was on one of his classes.. and he was always fighting for her love because she was with a bad boy.. she was so blind for her boyfriend...
and at the end she started dating with my uncle.. because he was always there for her and insisting and insisting... everything was fine... until.. one day they were walking... and the bad boy came in a fancy car and she left my uncle .. and went to the car of that guy.. that was they end of that relationship... but then... the bad guy took advantage of her... and treated her in the worst way...
3 responses
@kalaga (547)
• United States
22 Jun 09
oh sorry.i hope your uncle is ok.i think ur uncle had love at first site.it happens .thinking and loving is not love.love happens like that.but thank god that ur uncle got out of that girl's relation.he came to know about her before marriage.that is better.
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@lita_nurse (440)
• United States
22 Jun 09
Right.. he has that relationship when they were in college.. then he met the sister of my mother ( my aunt now as a woman).. because they have known from their childhood because of church but then they didn't see a lot... . and became friends . they fell in love and you know what is next...
@med889 (5941)
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22 Jun 09
I have always believed in long time engagement before commiting myself to someone. I cannot just see someone and then I want to marry him. Me and my botfriend have been friends then very close friends and finally before each other's realisation we turn to lovers, it was after many months. And today we shares those wonderful moments and we are growing together which is something great for me. But I am still sorry for your uncle and I hope he will get over this feelings very soon.
@always_natalia (444)
• Indonesia
22 Jun 09
Nope, usually I prefer to get to know the person first before I decide whether the person is good to be my friend, or boyfriend, or even the husband. There is a saying in my country that we can't "Pick The Cats In The Sack", otherwise we might end up with the bad one . But it's okay to admire someone who is handsome or pretty, as long as we don't make a rush decision that we will regret someday.