Have you ever cried over a relationship?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
June 22, 2009 3:56am CST
Yes! I think it's called love! It happens to me even I am a man. Especially when you love the person so much and hurt you and left you, no matter how you hold on. I wont cry if I don't love her. You only knew love when you feel the pain. I think real meaning of love is when you have tears in your eyes sometimes. But we men just hides it. Anyway have a nice day to all of you!
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6 responses
@pinklemonade (486)
•
27 Jun 09
I cry alot over relationships. But more often about a lack of relationship. I cry alot about things people DON"T say to me. Like when I say nice things to people and they just ignore me like I don't exist. I cry alot about things like that but I just keep going on for the hope that one day they will say something nice to me aswell.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
25 Jun 09
Yes i have shed tears many times. I like my sister in law very much and she lives in Dubai. Whenever she leaves for Dubai I feel hurt. She is more a friend for me than a sister in law.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
26 Jun 09
Hi preethaanju, I think everyone do cries. it comes when loneliness comes, feeling your all alone. When we miss someone in our life who is not there anymore. But you know what women are lucky cause you could shed your tears, not like men we have to hide it all the time. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Crying is really a coomon thing for me when it comes to realtionships. I am a cry baby and being in a realtionship makes it worsts. I cry over almost everything, even the simlpe thing. I cry when we fight, when we argue, when I want to d=win that fight, when I want to win the argument.lol.. I also cry when he does something sweet, something I really did not expect he would be doing. I cry when he is in pain, I cry when we watch movies, even cartoons. I guess I am not shy to show him the real me, my weeknesses and the weird things I do because I love him and he loves me too.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
26 Jun 09
Hi JOEMARVIC, I think we do all cry once once a while in our life. Sometimes we can't handle the pain, and to released the pain we cry. Women are very lucky people won't mind them when they cry, but we as men we can't cry, we hide it and pretend everything is fine. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
22 Jun 09
That is true. As a men, you might not cry in front of your good friends. You have to pretend to be strong in front of people. Secretly, you wanna to cry over someone's shoulder. Sometimes, it is okay to cry it out loud, and not express what want to express. release your pain a little. You will find a better way to live.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Hi clorissa123, I really can't cry in front of my good friends, it's kind a shameful to see me really down and depressed. Usually I hide from them when I feel that way! Not like women it's just too natural you easily can express what you feel and released the pain. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@mypriv8link (180)
• Philippines
22 Jun 09
Yes, I have. I guess crying is a human expression of grief, sadness and loss. When a person means something to you and you have built memories with that someone, it is difficult and painful to let go. But things like that always happen in life, whether we like it or not. We experience downfall and someone at some point, breaks our hearts. It is normal for one to cry over a relationship, either due to break-up or just petty misunderstandings. Crying isn't because you are weak, it is just a human emotion expressed although many had attributed it to weakness especially to men -- but I know that is not true.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Hi mypriv8link, when you love the person so much and lost that person it hurts me so much. It's just that the time wasted, and it didn't work things out right when you want it to last. The hurts is so much that even I control my tears it will just comes out naturally. I never like my friends to see me that way cause I am a man. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@shakespity (25)
• China
25 Jun 09
yes, i've cried over a relationship and me too, i believe that is love. i'd cry for the little tiny things about him but do not let him know. i know him and i know that he never means to hurt my feelings. but sometimes i just need to cry a little bit to let out my emotions~~~well, hehe, i know that sounds a bit silly~~
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
26 Jun 09
Hi shakespity, same her I do cry but I don't wanna show her. Especially when you love her very much, and she doesn't appreciate what I do for her, still she tells me she can't feel that my love for her. Sometimes when I really get pissed off, I'll go out of the house first and walk a while and tears just comes out in my eyes and I can't control it. Anyway have a nice day to you!
