What do you think about lesbian?

I make the same discussion in the students section.I just hope more and more people can understand this,and more parents can accept this.We are happy,so why not?Love is love!No matter girl or boy..

Hello happysunshinelily. No, Im not a lesbian. I have a friend who is a straight girl before, but when her ex boyfriend broke her heart, she was so devastated that she decided to have a relationship with a girl instead. Just like your friend. My friend was so traumatized that she never wanted to fall inlove with a guy instead. I tried to convince her that not all guys are jerks like her ex and that she should try falling inlove with a guy again. But, she disagree with me. Right now, she has a lot of lesbian relationships. She looks very happy with her current partner, eventhough it seems weird at first. I respect her decision. If that makes her happy then Im happy for her.

Well, you can't turn lesbian frankly. You are born one or you are not. You may take to a dislike to guys for some reason and pretend to like girls, but they can't do that for long. You don't chose to be a lesbian. You are....She'll never be comfortable trying to act one. Plus there are still some nic guys in the world. you could forward my reference..lol

Just getting broken hearted is not a reason to become a lesbian. Still she's a true girl no matter how she would try to pretend to be a lesbian. I don't favor lesbians but we have a lesbian friend whom we love and very close to us. When she's with us she don't act as one but we know she had relationship that last to beautiful girls. She's caring and responsible, we are much dependent on her when it comes to decisions but she's a sweet friend. We don't treat her as a lesbian but a woman like us.

For me, i am total okay if my friends are lesbian at the beginning. But it does sound weird that she likes boys then turn into liking girls. Maybe it's just for temporarily. maybe she will be to normal again! I don't think girl can just turn into a lesbian like that.

I myself don't want to have a relationship with lesbian. For me it is a sin no matter what I don't want to involve myself in that kind of relationship. I'm not against them but I don't want to have a relationship to them. One of my co-workers ask if there is no man in this world would you want to be in a relationship with a girl. My answer is no I rather be alone than to be in a relationship with the same gender. I'm not discriminating them but I dislike the idea of the same gender relationship.

No one can turn into a Lesbian. You are born with the gene. I am not a Lesbian, but I have friends, and a cousin, who are, and they did not become Lesbians, they always were. They dated men to convince themselves that they were straight, but in fact, they have always been, and always were, Lesbians. A true Lesbian will never be attracted to men, and she will try to date men at first, but she will be completely frustrated with them because they do not satisfy her needs.

I used to study in a girl school and I have seen lots of lesbian girls, I thought they were strange... some of them was nice but the "boylish" one were not particularly friendly and liked to be loud and stuff... I really don't know what they think and why they choose to be lesbian.

I think about lesbianism is not good. Is she beautiful? If she is, tell her that there are many guys out there who give her respect and love..like me..lol.

I also don't think that an incident like this can "turn you into a lesbian" Either she already was, or she has it in her head that this will make her life better. I said the same thing when a boyfriend and I broke up. Yet, I never chased after any girl or had any experiences, because I am not. I don't think there is anything wrong with being a lesbian, what people do with their life is their business, and it is certianly not mine. I would be there as much as you can for your friend. It sounds like she is going through a hard time and needs friends right now. You don't have to understand her reasoning to be supportive of her.

i am not a woman actually. but as for as i think this is very bad to be a lesbian. This is because man is made for woman and woman for man. This is not necessary that you always will find a good friend. So she should come back and not be discouraged with men and find a good friend if she want to enjoy her life.