What do think of cyber love?
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
12 responses
@eshaan (6188)
• India
23 Jun 09
i dont agree with you about this vijayanths...those who are not sincere and searching entertainment in the name of love or relationship, have the same tendancy on net as well as real life, but those who care for heart and feelings and emotions, love with same intensity and sincerity, may it be net or real life, they know that net is also the part of real world, and there are real people sitting in front of these non-living PC's and the real hands typing on those keyboards....i know that cyber love is or can be equally true and sacred as love of real life.....
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@eshaan (6188)
• India
23 Jun 09
y did u expect this from me ????...(do you know something) dont tell any one if u know .....anywayz i am very sensitive perosn viajaynths, even if someone is flirting with me, i will take it as love, you may call me a fool, but i am like that..can't help it
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
23 Jun 09
hahahahaha, I expected this from you eshaan. I said most of them treat cyber love as an entertainment. May be 1% of the cyber love real.or less than that?
I had a big disappointment in cyber love,lol(don't tell this to any one, ok?)
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@drknlvly6781 (6246)
• United States
23 Jun 09
I don't think so, at least for me. I need to fall in love with a living, breathing person that I can touch, not some picture and a few words on a screen. Online, you can say anything, and put any picture up, how can I fall in love not knowing if this is truly you?
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
23 Jun 09
Yes, you sound very real and meaningful. Most of the intelligent women feel the same way as you do.(of course there are some exception in this too, some intelligent women like eshaan may find cyber love real)
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@chenxiaoyue_713 (2165)
• China
23 Jun 09
I've alway had no good feeling for the cyber love thing. It's virutal and means nothing. When I was a college students, one of my roomates fell in love with an online friend. For a whole month, she thought of nothing but him. They talked to each other on the phone at least 5 hours a day, sometimes even all night long. Then, they decided to make a formal appointment. He came all the way from a distant place. But they ended up strangers after that. That feeling of love and romance suddenly gone when they met each other. He found no attachment for her any more. The worst was she was hurt a lot and remained depressed for a long time.
True love has to depend on mutual understanding and trust. The so-called love established online is irrational and even ridiculous. All of us have to be sensible of and responsible for our choices.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
23 Jun 09
yes, it happens like that. When you see a person through cam it may be different. So when they see in person, sometimes they get disappointment and there ends the story.
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 09
Yes,cyber love can be a real love too.I have heard a news about someone in my country who married his cyber lover.I feel shocked too but when i think back,it was a modern life now and maybe it is not a problem to worry about it too much.I know,sometimes cyber love can give a bad problem too but it can be control if people be carefull and not cheat.I also try join cyber love too but i don't interested on it too much.Have a nice day.Thank you.
@expressnature (265)
• India
22 Jun 09
My opinion is that they will not reveal their true qualities until they met directly. They are doing this just for fun and somebody only have true irrespective of the things and qualities. For entertainment, they are just doing this love and so may not be real all the time..
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
23 Jun 09
Yes, they don't reveal their true qualities. I don't like people giving false information as we can't find them out.However there are some who reveal their true qualities and have a true love too.
@roberten (3128)
• United States
22 Jun 09
I have seen it work for some and not for others; it is just a luck of the draw. You have to be a very brave and trusting person to get involved in a cyber relationship. I have never tried it, too busy working and raising my family on my own, but I say go for whatever floats your boat.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
22 Jun 09
well, most of the cybre love is ingenuine. people fake their identities and then woe girls. false statements is the basis of most relations.
but
there are some such relations which are neither fake nor based on false statements. in such relations initially even if there are statements made to attarct each other they are corrected when the relations grow. when these relations grow, they reach phones and then meetings and things convert from virtual to real.
@pbrockington (500)
• United States
22 Jun 09
I think that cyber love can be great. Not everyone lies about there qualities. to me it seems like regular dating.
now I not clearn on this so maybe you can help me out do you mean like site were you can meet people or is everything on the net?
@lkumarldh (142)
• India
22 Jun 09
according to me cyber love is increasing day by day with the advancement of technology,but its not good sign for new generation as it increases lots of problems for the parents as well as sometime due to cyber love children and even youths to be in trouble.
@zengjian (12)
• China
23 Jun 09
I agree with you .Cber love is not practical.But mangy people are addicted to
it as they expect to get more love after they fail in the real life.However it is the
same with the cyber love.While experiencing the cyber case ,they will understrangd
more clearly.