falling in love - do you hold back?

Yea I would say definitely. Be honest and true to yourself and follow your intuition. It's important that you always consider the other persons feelings too. You really wouldn't want to lead the person on into falling in love with you when you know deep inside you aren't going to be with them. It's good to just be yourself, follow your heart, speak honesty. You know it would be a different feeling if you were more attracted to the person or it was someone who was more likely to be your soul mate. You will know, when the time comes! =) As they say, "good things come to those who wait!" Cheers!

I can not. It is not easy to hold back. To me, it is not a romantic story. When I met my girlfriend, I love her immediately, but I should say the first impression is not correct normally, especially to me, then I found her family background and personality are totally different from mine. I have to endure her highly volatile personality till now. You must know the result: she is my wife now, although I do not like some parts of her life. I should say marriage sometime is not a judicious choice.