why I feel jealeous when I see my ex girl friend?
By sonusd
@sonusd (1547)
India
June 23, 2009 4:00am CST
Hello friends my girl friend left me 4 year back and as we were childhoos and frend and we are neighbour I see her everyday . Today also I see her with her boy friend and she is looking very happy with him , as she is my best friend and we had an affair for 2 year I should ahppy by seeing all these but I am feeling jealeous. I dont understand why these types of thinks are coming to mymind? Is it because they are happy or is it because till today I did not find another girl to love?
Or due to frustration that I am nothing I am feeling all these?
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14 responses
@carrotman92 (446)
• United States
23 Jun 09
well that sounds like you like her, go after her, when she is available. You still have feelings for her, and you didnt find another girl to love! thats what it is, you found the one you are content with, and you cant find anyone else, trust me i know how it is.
@doncruise21 (394)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
Hi there! the only meaning of that is you still love her in some way. I dont believe in friendship after love because its a very hard thing. Its a situation where in you hide your fillings and you dont admit it event its true. Just do stuffs that will make you busy. the best way is to search for a new one that can give you happiness. Move on bro !
@sonusd (1547)
• India
23 Jun 09
I dont know whether you are right or wrong but I can not keepmy self busy with out seeing or getting any information about her I always try to know what is she doing ? I knoe I should not do behind of her but still I am keeping information about her so tell me how to keep my self busy?
@expressnature (265)
• India
23 Jun 09
Because you have some kind of affection on her. You don't want her to be with others. May be because of not having other girl friend, it happens. But I think you may be possessive, so that you are feeling jealous of them. If you feel jealous, why don't you try to regain the relationship? It will happen at this age very easily. So, don't feel about that, it will be ok after some times.
@b1ntang (1)
• Indonesia
24 Jun 09
yes. . . you are right . that because you love her, and you hate when you see her happy with her boy friend, that is normal, so ,. . . . why don't you try to take her back to you, tell her that you love her most than everything in this world, tell her the true of your heart felling.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
I suppose you just need to let go and move on with your life. Cheers!!!
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
you're jealous because you see her so happy with another guy and you remained single. another reason why you get jealous because you get to reminisce your past whenever you see her. it is because you know for a fact that what she's doin' with her current boyfriend was still the very same thing that she does to you when you were still lovers.... move on with your life... find somebody else
@artofreed (130)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 09
It's reasonable. Sometimes after we cut off the love relation with someone, we condemn the ex-girlfriend and hopes that she have no other person loved her, and thought that only me that match with her.
Or... you still in love with her. If it is right, that's your jealous feeling.
In the other side, maybe it just the way of her to make you jealous.
It's natural cause we are human with all the selfish thing.
@candy2306 (576)
• India
23 Jun 09
Hi, let me tell you this, if you managed to not to see her one whole week that means it's not love at all. If you fail to do so, I'm sure you have feelings for her. Although you see her happy, you're not happy for her. Why? Deep in your mind, you're competing with her boyfriend!
Make a decision and approach her if you love her for real!!
@mypriv8link (180)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
It's natural to have feelings like that especially since you are neighbors and you see each other almost everyday. But you have to remember that life does not stop for anyone. You guys broke up and she has moved on. You should move on, too. Always remember the good times and that you both tried to work your relationship out but it simply isn't meant to be. You also should try to be happy for her because I am sure she would do if the situation was reversed.
@lkumarldh (142)
• India
24 Jun 09
hi freind the one of the biggest reason behind feeling jealous is your your possesiveness. According to me when you were with her ,you were caring for her so much but now when you are not with her you feel posessiveness about her. You still have feelings for her and you wanna her back in your life, it could be one another reason for feeling so.
