unfinished business

Philippines
June 23, 2009 8:32am CST
has there ever been a part in your life or somewhere in your past relationships that has left you wondering why such a thing happened? take for example, a past relationship, which you took seriously but suddenly ended with the guy not even bidding you goodbye. that one has left me wondering still, even if it happened a long time ago. this time around i still wonder why he suddenly left me, what was wrong with me? I still look forward to a time when we, after eight years, would meet, an me asking him, why and what happened.
2 responses
Caylaxx
@Caylaxx (96)
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23 Jun 09
This hasnt happened me, but firstly, ther is nothing rong with u! Of course your gonna want to know why he just left you when he didnt give you a reason, it will be hard but you should try to forget him
gingerale
@gingerale (225)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
thanks to both of you dear caylaxx and ckyera. indeed you are right i should forget him and your are right ckyera that God really has his reasons why it can't be the two of us. we can only remain friends. i'm already married but maybe I just call it an unfinished business because he never talked to me. we sometimes wish that if only guys would tell us the truth and not leave us wondering. too bad, it was my fault because I just assumed that maybe we could be together. But God has his plans and God has his reasons. thank you for dropping by. have a nice day to both of you
ckyera
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
hello gingerale! this topic reminds me of one guy in my life... he's my classmate in highschool and by then we already likes each other but just didn't become that close because we avoid teasing from our classmates...in short we didn't become "us" and actually our relationship then is really not good, we treat each other as if the other one did not exists! but we are always partner in all school activities...he's my escort in our prom! when we graduated, we lost contact with each other until one day, he just showed in the place where i worked( i am a working student) and this time, we become close to each other and even become close friend...but it looks like its too late for us because he already have a gf and i already have a bf that time... but still we become closer, he's always there and we even go out together sometime and when our old classmates saw us, they think that it is already "us" and they are happy in that thought...but again we never become more than friends although we feel like being more than friends... times past and again we loose contact to each other...and now i am already married, we saw each other on line...he's still single and already a pastor... we talked again and ask many questions to ask other...i ask him why he's asking me those questions that he ask me and he said that he just want to once and for all finish the unfinished business that we have... we both ask to each other why it didn't become us although we feel something for each other...why those things happen even if we already have the chance...why things seems to be always too late for us...the only answer that we both have is that maybe, we are really not meant to be...God has plans for both of us...maybe we are better to be friends... now, in your case, i hope that you will be able to talk to him again and make everything clear...and i hope for you to moved on with your life and don't let the past hold you back... have a nice day!