i have a crash on somebody,should i just tell him?

China
June 23, 2009 11:14am CST
i'm now a college student,Chinese by the way.i know it's ordinary to have boyfriend or girlfriend now.the boy i like used to invite me to be his partner on the ball party our school once held.at that time i didnt like him,just treated him like a classmate.but i thought he somehow liked me.for some hints.it's not until the next semester that i found i liked him.but the best chance went away,now i cannot even figure out if he still likes me or not.i just keep that emotion inside.noone else knows.and i dont really dare to tell him about that. what will you do my friends? go ahead or hide that in your heart?
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5 responses
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Well in your case I would rather tell him in the right time and get to be friends with him again and see if he is still interested with you just act casual and dont tell him instantly go out as friends talk about stuff as friends and from there you will find if he like you just the same as you like him then if he does then I think that would be the right time to tell him then if he doesnt have the guts to tell you first.
@eLsMarie (4345)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
actually, we're already living in a modern generation... anyone has the right to tell anyone what he/she feels... but it's up to you if you can handle the consequences that may come out... :)
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
I think you should find a way to be close to him and talk to him a little bit. You might find that it is a good thing to learn about him and for him to know you a little bit. Cheers!!
@OConnell87 (1042)
23 Jun 09
he probably still likes you, that emotion is not something you just switch off easily. Just talk to him more or when there is another event ask him if hes going
@Rain18 (14)
• United States
23 Jun 09
If I were you I would just tell, because tho the moment you are telling him you will feel extremely nervous the outcome could be that he still likes you and you guys can date and live happily ever after lol so go for it girl! whats the worst tht cud happen?