what are techniques you use to attract your man/woman?

Hi, Well I guess you should employ the same techniques you used to entice your spouse even before you were married. I try to stay attractive to my spouse by being caring & attentive towards him, both inside and outside of the bedroom, try to always look attractive regularly by exercising regularly and dressing in flattering clothes, you should always have open communication with your partner. I think too many people take their partners for granted after they're married to them. They think it's ok to neglect their appearance, gain a lot of weight, or ignore their spouse in the bedroom or outside of it.