Hard to choice!!! Lover or mother?
By marianna45
@marianna45 (1399)
Romania
June 23, 2009 1:18pm CST
When i say lover, i say wife, girlfriend, husband or boyfriend!!!I know that almost all will say that mother is most important in life, and they are right...but come a moment in life, when mother party is over, she will be all life same, will be woman who give you life..but, come a moment when you must choice, your life can t be as was before, must fly in other relation, must to be soul and body for your lover.
My question is...IF YOU MUST CHOICE, WHAT YOU WILL CHOICE, TO LISTEN AND HELP YOUR MOTHER OR CHOICE TO BE WITH YOUR LIFE LOVE?ARE MOMENTS IN LIFE WHEN WE WANT OR NOT MUST TO TAKE DECISION!!HARD QUESTION, I AM RIGHT OR NOT?
2 responses
@anoid1229 (8)
• United States
6 Jul 09
I think I have somewhat of a different perspective. I love my mom and I love my husband. But my mom has always been there with unconditional love and support. Spouses come and go. You can't choose between a mother and spouse. Unless, mom is being totally irrational. To be placed in between is a very hard position. I currently feel put between my husband and my mom. But I refuse to choose one over the other. It is wrong of anyone that expects you to choose.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
25 Jun 09
I guess there is this line in our relationship with our mothers. Their being mother is just one part of letting you grow responsibly and independent in life. But when it comes to the time their child learns to decide on their own their motherhood should now relax and let their children decide for themselves.
