Do you want to be loved?

Hi silver, being loved by someone is what everyone wants, and yes it is the same with mebut never by someone whom I do not have feelings for myself, it is sad for the other person as they are the people hurting or hoping that something could come from what they feel about the other person. but it can also be upsetting for the person who doesn't want to be loved or thought of that way as they too could be aware of what is happening and to try and let the other know they are not interested is easy...it has happened to me..both ways....LoLo

It is sad to be loved by someone you don't like because their love is being wasted on you when they can be loving someone who loves them back.

This happened to me and I felt so badly for him, but finally I knew he was in charge of how he felt and not me. There was nothing I could do so I just stayed away from him as much as possible and was very polite whenever we came in contact. He did out grow it and even brought his wife in to where I worked after they were married. I think he did that to show me what I was missing, but I was just very happy to know he found someone else.

To love, and be loved in return, to me is a gift from heaven. Whether it's your significant other/spouse, your children or extended family and friends...it's all good. One-sided love is always a sad thing, since it's almost impossible to flip a switch to turn it off. To be loved, but not feel it at all, almost implies that this person is a stranger to you? That's scarey.

To love someone who doesn't love you back is called infatuation (i think). But, yes, that would be really sad; to love someone who cannot love you back. Love is never forced nor dragged out of someone, its always be given out without asking. Me, I prefer to love and be loved back. =)

I don't want to be loved this way... I deffinately want to be loved by whom i love. It's more of a mutual thing and I dont want it to be the other way around either. I know from personal expiriences its sad when you love somebody and they dont realize your right there, and you want a chance but they wont ever give you one...

I would want to be loved by my children. I would like to be loved a little bit but not too much. As the song goes, too much love can kill us. Cheers!!

for me, i think it is a gift... when love is involved there is always risk... i continue to live because of the people who loves me. i would be honor to be loved by many. however, if that person forces me to love him in return even though he knows that i have no feelings towards him, then, i don't think it's already fair on his part and also mine. i can't love someone just because someone forces me to... it would be unfair on his part if we'll have a relationship and he's the only one who's willing to fight for it

In fact, to be loved by someone you don't like is a sad thing. But on the other hand, maybe you can open up your mind a bit and give her a chance, and she might be your true person in your life. Who knows?

Ofcorse, I want to be loved. It is a greatest gift you can give to someone. "Love gives you courage and being Loved gives you strength". I really love this quote.