NO MOney, NO Honey
By AndrewBoi
@AndrewBoi (369)
Philippines
June 23, 2009 8:43pm CST
It's an advantage if you had lots of money. You can bring a beautiful woman (your date) to a very nice restaurant, ride with your girl in a shiny car, travel anywhere, send many gifts, and many more.
But not all things can be bought by money like real love and happiness. The best things in life are free like the picture of sunset or giving one's life to one's love.
Do you want to have a lot of money? Do you think money answers all your problems? What do you need in life? Did someone love you because of your money? Did a friend turn his/her back on you because you don't have money? What do you feel that you don't have the most expensive and advance cellphone in the world? Do you desire to be rich or to build the biggest castle? What are you thinking? earnings? or friends? or love?
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18 responses
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
24 Jun 09
Money can buy certain necesseties like food and shelter and medical care. It pays our bills. I want "enough" money, but have no desires to be wealthy. I already know that money cannot buy good health or love or happiness or true friendship and respect. I put more store on those things and the beauty of nature and good people than I do on anything money can buy. This is true whether I am on the giving end of those things or the receiving end.
A very good discussion topic.
Karen
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@bang323 (102)
• Philippines
25 Jun 09
i am thinking for earning this worls needs money if u dont have money u cant eat what u want.just have a pleasure, friends are always there, but if u always ask for something to them i dont think they will give you more =.work for yourself so you can have all you wanted....
@AndrewBoi (369)
• Philippines
25 Jun 09
Yes you are right in there. We sould work hard to reach our dreams in life as wellas to live a good happy life.
@kindy198636 (471)
• China
24 Jun 09
So many questions, haha
I'm a girl, yes, I want to have a lot of money, I think everyone want to have a lot of money, then I can make my parents have a better life, and we can travel everyone, and enjoy the life, but I don't think money can resolve all the problems, and earn money is not the most important things in our life, sometimes the more you want, the less happiness you have, life is short, and I think love and friends are more important than money in our life.
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
for me,I will prefer honey with money.I would like to be with someone who is emotionally and financially stable.I would like someone who'll treat me right and is kind,caring,understanding and thoughful.i also like someone who is financially stable.it helps when we decide to get married,I'll feel secure having children because I know he can provide for them and they will not feel deprive.
@AndrewBoi (369)
• Philippines
26 Jun 09
yeah, wise decision choosing the honey with money. why choose one if you can have both?
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
27 Jun 09
though we need money to live and to go on with our lives, still its beautiful and more romantic to be with the one you love on places that you dont have to bring out all the money needed for it. i may be romantic but i rather have a simple date with the sunset, the beach, me and my guy, cozy with each other and just bring the right amount of food or whatever is needed for that date. sometimes we just have our dates either at his place or mine. much more ideal for both of us. no huge money needed for it.
jhelai
@wqdayang (137)
• China
24 Jun 09
Money is very impotant in our life,the feeling of happyness lies on our attitude to money.just like me,many years ago,my earning is poor,but I'm happy all day long,this conditions lasted for eight years!several recent years,I have enough money to deal,but I'm very upset!Why?
@AndrewBoi (369)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Maybe you need a true lover that would complete you everyday.
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
24 Jun 09
Eheheh there are much questions here!!
So yes i would like to have a lot of money..simply because you can have the wellness of choice if you have a lot of money so you cna be happy or unhappy but in both cases this is your choice!!
So if you have not money your comdamned to be permamntly unhappy also because i think as the society nowadays nobody come bakc to you to help you if you are not comfortbale to people so it is better have it and if it is true money don't give you the happiness ok..i will see if yes or not but i think the big problem for everybody nowadays is money so in thsi way you have solved one big in your life that may be many people can't solve or solved!!
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
24 Jun 09
Lol well honestly i like money,i like of being rich, it's not a sin anyway, my thought is money is not everything, but everything needs money, am i right? but i'm not one of the person who has' "no money, no honey" motto
We can buy fake love, fake friends, and another things .. , but the real love and real friends is more than money, nothing could buy them,it's unmeasureable, that's why they keep respect me like i respect them ...
@Mikaela_taz25 (1842)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Unfortunately that's the real World we are living in today friends. most specially to you in this discussion. Yeah, People like to Hang out with you if you're Rich,Famous, and Influential to a community. but If you were got involved into a scandal or had a financial problem, these group of people would certainly abandon you and leave you for good,it happened to me once. and it was rather...painful..
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
24 Jun 09
Hi, i like to have money as all people, who say that don t like to have money, lie.
But is not so important to have a fortune, simple life is the better, i like to have what i need not to have 5 houses or 4 cars.
Maybe you right, are persons who love money a lot, and try all to achive money, they think that they can buy all with money. is not true, love, or health you can t buy with Money.
Never i don t want somebody for money, because i have other thoughts about feelings and life,
Who say that "no money, no honey" had a bad experience, but in real, is not true, maybe just for an oportunist.
@rdadey (484)
• Canada
24 Jun 09
From reading the responses here I can see that many would agree they would feel more comfortable if there is a balance between money and love. However we don't live in a perfect world so it is kind of unrealistic to believe that we can be perfect.
Money will never bring happiness if those involved are pre-occupied with wanting it constantly. It will never buy you love and it won't even buy you true friendship. If you have money and you are surrounded by people because of money then you will have a very life at some some point, especially if that money disappears.
When I reflect on my life I really think that we (wife and kids) were the happiest when we had a lower income. We did more things together and they were much simpler and fun. After when money was good it seemed we drifted apart; everyone had something new to do and new things to use.
I remember when we would all pile in the car and go for long drives to places we never been. We hardly do that anymore and never with all of us together; someone always has something else to do. Why? Because with money in their pockets they are more independent. Is that bad? No, but it has changed us all.
I went off track a bit there...I just hope that you as a young man will be happy with what you have and will not ever feel the need to impress anyone.
@countrysun2sea (161)
• United States
24 Jun 09
I agree with this post whole heartedly....my husband and I went on our first date to the beach. We watched the sunset and talked all night. Thats it! We didnt go to a fancy restaraunt or ride in a fancy car...he didnt spend lots of money on me and I love that about him. We dont need to be rich to be happy. :)
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
i go for love , real love
When I looked at your title I was thinking that you came from the same country as I am and yes I am right lol
well for me I really dont care if I dont have anything as long as I have someone who loves me and I will love then in return many say that I am just a romantic fool who does not know what money can do for me but I told them
yeah I know what money can do and I dont like
what it has done so far so
I rather not have lots of it just enough to live through the day.
@leakey111 (29)
• China
24 Jun 09
There is no denying that money is essential to our daily life.Yes,I wish to be a rich person,but I just want to rely on myself to make money.For me,my family is everything to me .With more money I can give them a better life.Money is external thing for us.Family love ,friendship, true love, honest and so on are more valuable than money.
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Yeah, no money no honey. But I have a different point of view about honey. I want to have a lots money because I want to help my family to meet our daily needs. Yes money is important, but we have to think about what will be the cause if get drown to the money. My point of view about honey is the blessings we recieved. Even without money in your pocket, you can have a lots of honey in life, which are your happiness and joy with God in your life.
@Jakywoo (102)
• China
24 Jun 09
At first,I want to say that I'd like to make friends with you.Because in your words,I think you are worth being made friend for me.Then in my mind,I think you are right.In our daily life,money is important.But the most important thing in life is not money.And I treat love and friendship as my treasure.