Can i propose my best friends?

India
June 24, 2009 12:31am CST
I have a friend who is so close to me and very caring towards me. I think she will be a good life partner for me so i can i propose to my friends itself.
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13 responses
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
What do you mean by proposing for marriage or to become lovers. Well you can always do that but there is a risk that you may lose her as a friend in exchange for that proposal. So you think about it many times before you finally do it. There are many friendships that end because of this things but I think you should always try your best to express your true feelings for her its juts that you should be ready to accept the consequences of your action.
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
If you plan to do it just be prepared for the things that unprepared and unexpected emotion hope it would work for a good proposal
• United States
24 Jun 09
YES you can propose marriage. there is no problem with that. atlest you people understand each other and moreso you are friends
@lovedude (4447)
• India
24 Jun 09
You shouldn't directly propose her, before that talk to her and show your feelings, let her feel that you are thinking her more than a friend.. because if you hurry to show your feelings, then it may be possible you hurt her so better to be little patient in this matter.. Good Luck.
@UK_Shree (3603)
24 Jun 09
It depends on whether you have been given signals by her whether she feels the same towards you. When two people are attracted towards each other I think there are always ways of telling and therefore I think you need to reflect on whether she has given you any signs that she feels the same way, or else you might risk losing your friendship.
@kabudel (175)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
Well, since you said you're the best of friends, I think it would be easy for you two to talk about things like that. It sometimes is fun to make a pact with a friend, that in case you both are still single by the age of 40, you can settle for each other. Just a thought, because I've heard of a friend do that with her best-guy-friend. *wink*
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
24 Jun 09
I would go one step ahead and say that she is perhaps the best and the ideal person to whom you can propose. You both have known each other well. There are no written rules that friends shouldn't marry. It is all human creation. When marriages happen within family what's wrong in marrying a good friend? Go ahead
@subha12 (18441)
• India
24 Jun 09
You have to justify whether she has same feelings. Plus see how she is reciprocating the feelings. Try to speak a little bit intimate and see how she reacts.I have heard one friend of mine who proposed his best friend. Before that he asked her, he is thinking something about her. She will fit very well with him and so on. The girl was initially not ready, but later they are couple.
• United States
24 Jun 09
If this person is your friend you should talk to them about your feelings, don't go and propose to this girl if she does not expect it at all. It is great to be friends with someone before you start a relationship, but remember to have a romantic relationship before you ask her a question as serious as it is- you may make her feel awkward and scared to hurt your feelings or guilty. I wish you the best of luck in your future. I hope she feels the same about you as you do her.
@jlamela (4898)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
If you feel that you love your best friend and think she can be a wonderful wife and mother to your children then you go ahead. Personally, I am more comfortable marrying my best friend than any other person in this world. I have this similar situation where I am "into my best friend" and longing for him to propose to me.hehehe..I feel that I can be only comfortable with him and no other else.
@ddfreedie (690)
• India
24 Jun 09
First try to know if she feels the same....if not then she might mistake you and your friendship may get spoiled...so be very careful...explain it very carefully to her...if she is not willing dont ever force her...whatever happens continue your friendship...all the very best..ill pray to God for your LOVE... all the very best..
@med889 (5941)
24 Jun 09
It is good to express your own feelings so if you see that you have a great opportunity to do so then why not go forward and tell her what you feel for her. If she accepts then this is wonderful and if she denies then no problem but take it as her wish and respect her decision.
• Malaysia
24 Jun 09
Does she has the same feelings towards you? It is not wrong to do it if both of you have feelings for each other. However, you must be prepared to accept her answers. She might be the one, but she also might not ready to commit. All the best!
@beejay24 (75)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
you know what? there are cases that when you propose your love to your best friend the relationship change. you don't expect things to be the same as it was before, sometimes changing the relationship into lovers , sometimes threatens the friendship. but you are correct our best friend sometimes are best partners in life.if you really think she is the one, pursue it.it is easy love our best friend since they are our constant companion and best friends understand more each other. beejay